2007-02-01 21:10:43 · 29 answers · asked by Mrs. Shrek 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
depends on the marriage in question. It could be a healthy sexual experession for you both, or it could be world war III....personally, I would never, never never ever.
2007-02-01 21:14:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Fiona, it is neither good nor bad. If you do a threesome, it MUST be an accentuation to the relationship, not to throw passion into it. Passion is a strong emotion, just like happiness, sadness, joy, depression, and worst of all...rage. Just like the emotions stated, the variations that can happen depend on why or what you are seeking. Never do it out of desperation to save a relationship, and conversely, never do it to cure bedroom boredom, do it because it "flows" with the vibe of the relationship! Not like I'm an expert, but have been in that lifestyle for 17 years, less this past year...the calculator says....16 years!
2007-02-02 11:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anderson J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good thing when done between the right people for the right reasons. Bad thing when done between the wrong people for the wrong reasons.
What's the wrong people? Those that are predisposed to jealousy, controlling people, manipulative people. Not the right type for swinging (and a threesome IS swinging).
What's the wrong reasons? To "fix" a relationship on the rocks, doing it to "get more action", doing it to fulfill your fantasies when it isn't your partner's fantasy.
Who are the right people? Those that are secure in themselves, each other, and in their relationship. Those that can emotionally separate love from sex. Those that are not the jealous type, controlling, or manipulative.
What are the right reasons? To help your partner live-out their fantasies while you live out your own. To add to an already great sex life together.
For some good, objective and accurate information about swinging and relationship dynamics, check-out The Swingers Board. It's free and chalk-full of good info.
2007-02-02 04:46:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It really depends. My wife and I have done some crazy sexual things that most would freak out over. I love my wife and I know she loves me. We are both open to things like that. We have a wonderful relationship. We have two children. I can't say that a threesome is necessarily good or bad for a relationship, but I can say that great sex in a relationship is great and trying new sexual things will keep that thing going. Take it as you will.
Another thing that will help is if you like girls. If you don't than don't. You need to also enjoy it.
2007-02-01 21:15:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
There are a lot of things you can do to spice up the sex life before you move on to swinging and threesomes.
2007-02-01 21:14:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply Horrible. I've known 3 different women over the years that have taken part in these kinds of activities and the episode's still haunt them today.
As Edgar Guest says, "I have to be fit for myself to know. I want to be able as days go by, to always be able to look myself in the eye. I don't want to lie with the setting sun and hate myself for the things I've done. I see what others may never see. I want to be self-respecting and conscious free."
Taken out of context.
2007-02-01 21:18:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I understand the random, one night threesome.
But within a relationship? I don't think I could ever enjoy watching my man f*ck somebody else.
2007-02-01 21:13:38 · answer #7 · answered by shortcake 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no offense but go to marriage and divorce place we try to have fun here and threesomes are candy bars without zits
2007-02-01 21:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by Agent99 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bad
Although I sure like too
2007-02-01 22:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is suppose to be Two people, why marry if you are going to share with others, might as well stay single..
2007-02-01 21:15:22 · answer #10 · answered by Lorene 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋