should i let go?

Question

me and this guy were really good friend we used to talk eveyday and all time and we both had a huge empack on each others lifes we even started developing feelings for each other but we didnt we didnt do anything about it cos we didnt wanna spoil our friendship but we still become bestest of friends but now were starting to talk less and less and i told him about it and he just told me it was nothing and that he was busy with school and staff ..it got back to nomral for like 2 days but now his doing it again his drifting away and i dont know wat to do i mean his th one drifting away from me .. help

Answer 1

well i would say never give up on what you love. if you still want him as a mate or bf then just explain to him saying you want to talk more and see more then he will get that you like him then maybe he will take notice and then call you etc. i hope you get whats best and dont give up. bless. k. frosty

Answer 2

I would just give him the space. Him might be finding it hard as he has feeling for you and he known that nothing is going to come of it. Some times people need to move on as Friends are just not enough for them. I could be wrong.
Just chat at least once a week, some times friends do drift away in life and its some thing that you can not stop.
My best friend at school was a boy and i moved away and lost contact for 4 years then i went back to my old place and he surprised me and we got back into contact and its like we never lost contact. By we don't chat every day like we used to when we got back into contact as we both have our lives to live and people in our lives that need us more.
I do hope this helps you in some way.
Keep your chin up Hun

Answer 3

no, don't let go, adjust. i have 2 best friends from my freshman days of high school that i haven't physically seen in 5 years and things are still great between us. we talk through emails and beleive me when i say it's every blue moon when we do that. just because your not still doing the same old routine doesn't mean that your being pushed to the side. school is important and since ( well i can only guess) your not on that page with him its hard to keep you involved.he obviously doesnt realize that he's puling away. trust me it is easier than you think. that's why when you brought it to his attention he started to do the things that he use to do. it's not that he doesn't want you in his life there are just other things on his plate and he has to deal with those first. trust me you're still all good. start focusing on other things that you've been putting aside. just leaving a messsage every once in awhile to say hi will mean more than a 3 hour conversation. eventhough those are great too

Answer 4

talk to him again and tell him that it is bothering you and you dont want to loose him as a friend . And ask him if you could try and turn this into a relationship and see if it works out , if not you can still be friends . DONT LET GO & DONT GIVE UP !!!

Answer 5

You love someone when you are better because of them, you don't have to be around them you want to be. A marriage or relationship is with your best friend. It sounds like a love unspoken, don't let it go.

Answer 6

This sounds like it has potential. You should see if you can do something to turn it into a relationship. You should ask him out on a date.

Answer 7

Let him be, give him space and time. Don't do the calling, let himmiss you and give him a chance to miss you. I'm sick and tired of women chasing men, let the men do the chase sometimes

Answer 8

perhaps he has a new love interest, or maybe is just busy give him a few days without contacting him and see if he makes a move to contact you if he doesnt then let it go. good luck

Answer 9

Maybe he's met someone else. So doesn't have as much time for you anymore.

Answer 10

ok it sounds like your freaking out over nothing