is it?or it isn't?why? can u tell me the reason
2007-02-01 20:21:15 · 14 answers · asked by sixteenforever 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Ask yourself... can you rationally explain, why you loved your exs? I don´t think so...
if you include biological programs in our genes, the it becomes rational, but I don´t think you wanna go that deep...
2007-02-01 20:25:43 · answer #1 · answered by Steini - 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
like to me is basically an entire heart connection/charm to somebody. yet, in my adventure "love" can exist on many ranges and how that is expressed is the confusing area. Or could I say love is approximately connections to those countless ranges. there is the relationship the place you meet somebody and you're very involved in them. once you're making love that is a superb and mindblowing adventure. yet possibly you do no longer communicate lots, so the social charm or connection isn't there. yet another variety of relationship is the place you communicate, communicate, communicate. So your social connexion is strongly felt, yet possibly the actual loving isn't so good. Then there is likewise the particular relationship (and that i'm keeping this fairly hassle-free) the place your social connexion is marvelous and the actual area is astounding - so there's a the two a strongly felt social and actual charm. that is what we generally look for and is, possibly, the suited. yet those connections/factors of interest may additionally comprise the emotional point, the non secular point, karmic point etc. i'm attempting to maintain it hassle-free. those connections/factors of interest additionally are no longer something to do with the rational questioning innovations. It concerns basically your emotions, instincts, air of secrecy, hormones - call it what you will. And is composed of no longer something. for this reason, love is maximum actual no longer rational and posing the question "Is it seen as irrational to love somebody and tremendously in the event that they have already got an more desirable half?" is for particular - basically for the easy reason which you won't be able to help falling in love with somebody if a majority of those connexions/factors of interest are obvious. In answer to the 2nd area of the question, if the single which you like already has an more desirable half this suggests they are additionally dedicated to one yet another. And the guy you like would possibly no longer have the comparable emotions for you. Or that guy or woman might love you... And basically because of the fact somebody has an more desirable half, how do you be attentive to whether that could be a happy loving relationship ? that is not any longer approximately appropriate and incorrect yet greater approximately appropriate determination and incorrect determination. regrettably, you in basic terms don't be attentive to except you are trying to locate this out..... and consequently the end result can the two be heaven or hell.... --
2016-11-02 02:57:51 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between the Head and the Heart
Head=Mind=Rational
Heart=Passions=Emotions=love
Rational is what you can explain in terms of words. What appeals to you as reasonable logically with the proof presented as and when required or necessary. Its devoid of any emotions that could cloud a persons judgement.
There can be no 'reasonable logic' for love unless you have some ulterior motives eg.
"the only son / daughter of a wealthy father / mother / parents"
or " she / he is beautiful / handsome"
Love is a feeling of belonging oneness which two share at the same time, and possibly with the same intensity. A one sided love can only be a cause of misery.
Hope this helps
2007-02-01 20:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by madhatter 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If love was rational, then people in love wouldn't look like idiots. If people in love didn't look like idiots then, rationally speaking, love would be meaningless.
So no, it's not rational. But it's not irrational either. Love is love.
2007-02-01 20:30:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No of course not my dear.
For if one's loved was based on rational reasoning.
It wouldn't be love at all. Logic and common sense fly out the window so we can float senslessly into the abyss called love.
2007-02-01 20:31:19 · answer #5 · answered by Future 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is neither rational or irrational. It is thinking that makes it so.
"The mind can make a hell of heaven and a heaven of hell"
- John Milton
"Why, then, 'tis none to you; for there is nothing
either good or bad, but thinking makes it so: to me it is a prison."
Act 2, Scene 2 of Shakespeare's Hamlet
Love is a match game of tennis.
2007-02-01 20:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you look at it from an evolutionary sense then yes it is. Loves purpose is to facilitate pair bonding and increase offspring. Up close it may seem irrational but if you step back and look at the big picture it makes sense. That's why I can stay with my wife despite her tendency to drive me crazy. I make sure to reciprocate.
2007-02-01 21:05:45 · answer #7 · answered by hot carl sagan: ninja for hire 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No
people are neither rational nor logical by nature.
they tend to rationize after the fact why things happen.
Some people are more organized then others - not me regrettably.
2007-02-01 20:33:24 · answer #8 · answered by Carl P 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Love is Irrational. But, you have to love, rationally. Otherwise, you will be marked as a beast.
2007-02-01 20:36:10 · answer #9 · answered by Kakoo 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No, I don't think It is. It makes us do foolish things, things that have nothing to do with common sense.
2007-02-01 21:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara V 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋