Don't' listen to the jerks. There is a huge difference between a 10 year old saying this and a 25 year old saying this.
You are not at all stupid or immature for asking such a question. I am old enough to be your Mother and can completely relate to what you are asking.
I guess some children with good parents have no clue what it is like to be tormented by their parents. A 15 year old boy in Texas was chained to a bed 10 years ago and died. Should we be so stupid and say that he was childish if he asked for better parents today at the age of 25? (This actually happened). No!!!
I have a friend (27) who's parents refinanced their $250,000 house using her SS# without her knowledge or consent. They have not made their $1500.00 payment in 4 months. She and her husband had to file bankruptcy and she had to file charges against her parents. The parents will have to serve jail time. Her relatives think she is mistreating her parents. She is learning how to let go of her relatives and move on with her spouse and child.
Hang in there. Learn to let go if you must. Sometimes parents can be more toxic to you then complete strangers.
2007-02-01 22:04:27
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answered by Anonymous
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I know that you are serious because i felt this way after growing up with a very strict upbringing and various other family problems i often wished i had an understanding ear and a sympathetic shoulder to cry on but i have decided to give myself all the love i didn't get by building a family of my own.
2007-02-02 06:45:06
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answered by Anonymous
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I know the feeling, that's why I left at 18. That just doesn't happen nowadays though. I fully expect to be a fulltime mom until my son is at least 35. Here is a real website about adult adoption.
Hope it helps :)
http://adoption.about.com/od/typesofadoption/a/adultadopt.htm
2007-02-01 20:25:18
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answered by Bean62960 3
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Why don't you do some work within your community helping out the elderly - doing their shopping, keeping company for an afternoon etc. You could build up a rappor with them and I'm sure they would value your time and effort greatly. Voila - new grandparents!
2007-02-01 20:29:55
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answered by Sam 3
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I wish! If I ever do find a way I will be sure to let you know... btw, the people making the catty remarks have no idea what its like.
2007-02-01 20:39:12
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answered by briteidegirl 2
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I think we all would i hear Anglena and Brad are looking to adopt another child you could be like a live in Nanny......
But be honest you love your parents you can't help it and one day you will wish you hadn't wished them away.... :o)
2007-02-01 20:19:36
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answered by sweetness 2
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You may be 25 yrs old, but you still need to grow up. One day, you will regret these words. You should Cherish your parents, not wish to change them. They won't always be here and believe me. You will miss them, when they are gone. !! xx
2007-02-03 14:28:43
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answered by Sierra One 7
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Get a husband who parents are still around instead.
2007-02-01 20:28:24
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answered by Fish Master 5
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We should swap for a while. We could make a reality TV show out of it and sell it to Fox.
2007-02-01 20:18:50
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answered by Anonymous
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you particularly might desire to hold a relatives assembly with all prompt individuals contemporary and ask your mom and dad why they dont take any be attentive to you, communicate your emotions and be good. i will comprehend you feeling you want to undertake new mom and dad - they probable are excellent human beings and wouldnt want to harm you, i develop into emotionally and bodily abused via considered one of my mom and dad and the different one basically grew to become a blind eye to it. If i will have found new ones i might have inspite of the certainty that I did attempt to undertake grandparents for my own infants as I didnt want them to omit out, its no longer the comparable although and it didnt come to something. besides on the age of 25 you're able to or would possibly no longer have somebody particular on your existence you want to be with after which you additionally could make that relationship artwork between yourselves. Your mom and dad will continuously be your mom and dad yet that different guy or woman stands out as the precedence on your existence. yet another determination is to develop into attentive to different people who seem to you as like a son/daughter of their own basically via the particular friendship you strengthen with them, human beings latch onto one yet another for many distinctive motives and you're able to discover a connection there. try perhaps some community artwork and you're able to somebody or possibly a pair who might want to have somebody like your self as a son/daughter, perhaps in the event that they couldnt have their own or lost a selection of of of theirs. I lost my son and that i be attentive to it does no longer be stressful for me to try this if the suited guy or woman got here alongside. good success, be happy, love your self in a healthful way and others will love you too whether that is mom and dad or besides the fact that, it may take time yet a risk.
2016-11-02 02:57:43
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answered by ? 4
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