Staying out till late makes me wonder whether there is another woman, however he says no.
2007-02-01 18:50:05 · 19 answers · asked by Mclara 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He may love you, but not respect you. He takes you for granted and probably thinks you can't or won't replace him. How many guys want to see their mom when they have a wife to come home to? It is usually one or the other, the man is lonely so his mother is comforting or his mother is over-bearing so his wife is comforting, but not both! Doesn't look good. Even if it is true, there may be something wrong with the marriage. If you are not exciting and attractive, nice and kind, honest and faithful, loving and thoughtful, then there IS someone else, even if it is mom. Yes, us men are simple and maybe even stupid, but we know which side of our bread is buttered. If no butter then maybe he'll try to find his "butter". Beware. Be the butter.
If you are the butter then find another piece of bread.
2007-02-01 19:03:15 · answer #1 · answered by Curious Bill 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he does love you, but I would also wonder about the questionable night explanations. Perhaps sit down and have a conversation with his mother and frankly explain your concerns and see if they are unfounded or if he is out somewhere else. If he is not with his mom, it doesn't necessarily mean he is with another woman. Hopefully he does not have a drinking problem or is not into any mischief, but be honest and dont jump to conclusions without knowing for sure. If you do not want to discuss things with his mother, tell him you want to have a talk with him and remain very calm and tell him you are concerned about his safety and wish to spend more time with him instead of him being out. Do not say that you think he is with another lady cuz that will only make him defensive and close himself off from you. An open discourse is what you need. I hope this helped!
2007-02-01 18:56:03 · answer #2 · answered by AggieAM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What does his mother say? Why is he there so late? There may be other things than another woman. Maybe he needs time alone or has a second job. Have you told him that just staying out late is bothering you?
2007-02-01 18:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds highly suspicious, and often our gut instinct is correct. Is there any way you can confirm this with his mother? Is there some reason he would have to suddenly be spending so much time with her (perhaps she is ill or requires living assistance). Does he call you from his mother's house to let you know he's there? This shouldn't be too much to ask. If he's really at his mother's, he should have no reason to resist your asking that he account for his time there. Calling you up so that you know where he is if you need him, or so you don't worry about him is common courtesy. If he flies off the handle at the suggestion and accuses you of being too clingy, he is probably doing something he shouldn't.
2007-02-01 18:57:09 · answer #4 · answered by roknrolr63 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 02:55:07 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is bound to say no! but before you jump the gun do some detective work afterall it may not be another woman, he could have a gambling problem and be at the casino all night which is still bad but you can help him with that, but innocent untill proven guilty, good luck
2007-02-01 18:58:37 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Honesty ♥.•´ `*.¸ ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just described my life. My husband says he is at his mothers when he is not home or not at work. It's also been going on for quite a long time. I don't know where he is and I won't check up on him. But it is obvious that he doesn't want to be here.
2007-02-02 06:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by I love winter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call over his Mothers and find out. Is he acting distant to you or acting guilty and defensive? May be the truth, but you should call her and ask if hes stopping by.
2007-02-01 19:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by seven-11 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to wait and wonder, then you don't need to be with him. It's obvious that he's trying to avoid you, so that you can have an excuse to leave him. He doesn't want to be the first to say it's over. Good Luck!
2007-02-01 19:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really think he's going to admit it? Put your damn foot down! Unless he scares you, then you've got problems...
I will tell you this: If the words "honesty" and "trust" are ever violated within the marriage, then they never did exist in the dictionary of matrimony...and never will.
2007-02-01 18:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋