can you have sex even though you have phimosis?

Question

you can still have sex but it wont be as pleasuring right? because i dont wanna get a circumcision and i am being very tempted to have intercourse with my girlfriend.she knows that i have phimosis but im still very tempted to. can i at least have oral?

Answer 1

Let's be perfectly clear about this - although you can have some sort of sex with phimosis, it will be most unsatisfactory for both of you. You really do need to get that foreskin pulled right back to expose the groove behind the head before you attempt sex. You should also wash your penis thoroughly for the first time in your life when you manage to pull the skin back. However, you really should get your penis circumcised. Circumcision will provide better hygiene, comfort, appearance to women, self-esteem and Far better sexual sensation for both you and your female partner(s). There are no disadvantages to being circumcised. It will not hurt and you will be back to normal within 2 or 3 weeks. Do yourself and your girlfriend a favour and get yourself circumcised without delay

Answer 2

You can just put a condom on over the foreskin with it still forward. This will prevent the foreskin being forced back and causing pain but you will feel less than if you could retract. That may not be a bad thing on your first time though and may help you last longer. Circumcision is a last resort and if you do it properly stretching will work faster than healing from surgery.
I answered a similar question this way:-
You shouldn't need circumcision, which takes months to recover from. Stretching is the best option.:-
STRETCHING TECHNIQUE ONE
If the foreskin is very tight the simplest method is to pull back on the skin (easiest with an erection) so that the opening feels tight and a bit uncomfortable without real pain. Hold that for a few minutes and repeat a few times. Do this a couple of times a day. You will find that soaking in a warm bath will make the skin softer and easier to stretch.
The major disadvantage with this method occurs when some stretching has been achieved or if the phimosis was mild to begin with. Once the opening is big enough to just fit over the rim of the glans when erect the foreskin is at risk of getting stuck behind it. If this happens a condition know as paraphimosis may develop.
This is why stretching technique two is probably better once the foreskin opening is big enough to make it almost possible to slide the foreskin back over the glans.
STRETCHING TECHNIQUE TWO
The second stretching technique can be best illustrated by this photograph http://www.foreskin.org/46-33-03.jpg.... You can either grab each side of the foreskin opening and gently pull on each side of the opening, as shown in the photograph or, even better, insert the ends of two fingers, even the little fingers and pull them gently apart. Stretch the opening in this way until it feels uncomfortably stretched but not actually painful. Hold and repeat as for method one. Once again this is best done after soaking in a warm bath
PROBLEMS?
If the opening becomes sore, or develops splits, stop for a few days and let things heal up. Going at it too fast will only slow things down in the end. Sometimes splits and tightness are due to a fungal or yeast (thrush) infection. Treatment with an antifungal / anti-yeast cream designed for women’s genitals will usually fix this problem. I’ve also seen reports of success with a Hydrocortisone / anti-fungicide mix like “Fungocort”.

PARAPHIMOSIS
Paraphimosis occurs when the foreskin gets stuck behind the glans of an erect penis, trapping the blood that causes the erection in the glans and causing swelling of the foreskin itself. If the foreskin becomes stuck squeeze the head of the penis firmly to force the blood out and try and ease the foreskin forward. Perhaps soaking in the bath or using an oil-based lotion will make this easier. If after many tries you still can’t do this see a doctor or go to a hospital emergency room fast. This is not a common problem but you should be warned of the danger.
Geoff

Answer 3

Unless the phimosis is so bad that it hurts upon erections, you should still be able to have sex (though of course it won't feel nearly as good). There are plenty of things you can try to help remedy this condition before you consider surgical options.

Try stretching exercises, they work in the majority of cases. In one exercise, take two fingers and stretch the foreskin opening as far as it'll comfortably go (like increasing its radius) by hooking a finger on either side of the opening. It may take several tries to get right but once you do, do this exercise for a few minutes each day for a few weeks to a month (preferrably right after a shower).

If this doesn't work after a month, don't worry. There are prescription creams that're supposed to help, especially when combined with stretching exercises. If after another month this doesn't work, then you should consider surgical options. There are surgical options other than circumcision, so keep that in mind and never let anyone suggest circumcision as the first or the only option if you don't want it. See links for more info.

Answer 4

What "ponysteel" wasn't mentioned that it took him 8 months to
fully recovered with his d***k skin slid off, would your girlfriend willing to wait that long or she'll get another one..skin or no skin? How'd you know it wasn't pleasuring? have you had any sex with any female yet? Don't took any advice from what so called :" its a religious thing..."
more extractive to female...etc. there were no such bibble mentioned about removing male d****k skin, if yes pls publish it.
Female extracted to you because of your personality, charmin and your attitudes wise...once girl falls in love with you, they'll accept you as what you have, skin or not...I married my wife for 9 years now, my d***k skin never removed and my wife still love every bit of it...don't listen to anybody out there, its only their opinions but its your d***k skin that being slid off...Think...

Answer 5

thats so stupid what starrwood said, of course you can still have sex with the forskin, and actually, its been prooven that you have more pleasure if you have the forskin. don't listen to that stupid thing about, you need to get circumcision. I mean go ahead and do it.

Answer 6

yes

Answer 7

yes you can still have sex but to make your penis work correctly you need to stretch your foreskin with your fingers or a glansie and topical steroids.

Answer 8

you mean the foreskin is growing to your penis head? you cant have sex and you must have the circumcision or you will eventually have to have the head of your penis removed, and you sure wont like that.

Answer 9

circumcision is the answer

Answer 10

big YESSSS