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Do you think it's a sin? Do you think people just can't make up their minds? Do you think they love everyone of any gender equally and therefore they are very balanced? Do you think people claim to be bisexual just for more attention? ...etc

2007-02-01 18:03:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Cultures & Groups Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

21 answers

I think it's fine..I think it's who they are...and why would I care about anyone's sexuality unless I were after them.

2007-02-01 18:10:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 9 1

1: No, I do not believe it's anymore a sin than liking chocolate over vanilla. Since I've never seen any religion that demands that is a sin, nor is sexual orientation.

2: No, it has nothing to do with Mind making up, it's simply the fact that bisexuals are attracted to BOTH genders, yes, some lean more to one gender over another, but that doesn't make them any less bisexual.

3: No, not all bisexuals are equally oriented. Actually a very small percentage are.

4: No, and those who feel that are obviously not all that comfortable with their own sexual orientation.

I know I am!

2007-02-02 02:17:34 · answer #2 · answered by DEATH 7 · 3 1

Having fallen for a man and for a woman at different times of my life, for me personally it's a matter of the person inside, not the body parts involved. I can only be physical with someone I care about emotionally too. I respond to the heart and soul. That makes sex meaningful. I find men and women equally attractive physically. I'm attracted to both. I am comfortable emotionally and physically with both. So I assume all that means I am bi. I don't want more attention. I am not a social person... I'm a hermit, really. It's just how I feel inside.

2007-02-02 02:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by grrluknow 5 · 2 1

I can only speak from the perspective I have as a bisexual person. It's normal and fine. It's not a sin. It's not that I I'm confused and just can't decide which sex I like better. Even if that were the case, why should I have to? To fit a social norm? I don't believe in that. I actually find only being attracted to half the population strange. Sex is sex and hot people are hot people. Period.

2007-02-02 02:28:49 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 6 · 5 2

Its not a sin but in the case of about 3/4 of bi people there are some severe commitment issues its more like they have one foot out of the closet in almost every case I know of. At least i can commit to 50 percent of the population (I am gay btw)

2007-02-02 03:32:29 · answer #5 · answered by blakey383 2 · 1 0

Bisexuality is a legitimate sexual orientation.

Heterosexuality and homosexuality are only the two extremes of sexual orientation. Sexual impulses and attractions are not the same with everyone, and in the middle of these two 'extremes' are bisexuals.

Some in the gay and lesbian communities accuse those who self-identify as bisexual of duplicity, believing they are really homosexuals who engage in heterosexual activity merely to remain socially acceptable. They may be accused of "not doing their part" in gaining acceptance of "true" homosexuality. Some gay and lesbian people may also suspect that a self-described bisexual is merely a homosexual in the initial stage of questioning their presumed heterosexuality, and will eventually accept that they are lesbian or gay; this is expressed by a glib saying in gay culture: "Bi now, gay later."

These situations can and do take place, but do not appear to be true of the majority of self-described bisexuals. Nonetheless, bisexuals do sometimes experience lesser acceptance (unfairly in my opinion) from gay and lesbian people, because of their declared orientation.

2007-02-02 03:04:43 · answer #6 · answered by rp_iowa 3 · 2 1

i am bisexual, so i can tell you.

sins are actions or thoughts, depending on who you ask). bisexuality is niether of these; it is a state of being.

it is not an issue of making up your mind. why do you need to decide? being bisexual if having the ability to be attracted to both sexes. it doesn't mean you DO anything with both sexes. what's wrong with that?

most people fall somewhere on the spectrum of bisexuality, but they are so close to one end or the other that they can just ignore whatever latent homosexuality they have within them. self-proclaimed bisexuals just acknowledge this attraction.

plenty of people claim to be bisexual just for attention, but that doesn't mean all or even most do.

there is a difference between claiming bisexuality as an identity and being bisexual. i would guess that most people are bisexual, but very few people call themselves bisexual. the rest of them are just picking whichever end they are closest to and ignoring the rest of their feelings instead of incorperating them into their identities. the lack of different terms for someone who is bisexual and someone who identifies as bisexual is cause for a lot of confusion, i think...

2007-02-02 03:11:17 · answer #7 · answered by scruffy 4 · 2 2

I think bisexual is a true description of some peoples sexual desires. You do not have to be in love with some one to have a very strong sexual desire for them. In some cases it just happens to be a desire of different sexes.You would not think in today's society that much wrong with some one who was sexually attracted to more then one female or a girl sexually attracted to several men. So why do you feel it is so unnatural to desire sex with a few different males and females. I am sure their are very many people out there that are attracted to both sexes but do not act upon that desire or attraction.

2007-02-02 02:14:11 · answer #8 · answered by JUSTIN C 2 · 3 2

If someone wants to be bisexual that is their choice; however, as a lesbian I would NEVER date a bisexual because many believe it's ok to cheat on their partner as long as it's with someone of a different sex.

2007-02-02 10:48:47 · answer #9 · answered by Scully 6 · 1 1

I think it is fine and wish more power to those who are bi. But I don't think that I am really attracted to a bi man. I think there is a different psyche in the totally gay male that I really am seeking in a partner.

2007-02-02 03:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by San Diego Art Nut 6 · 1 0

yes it is a sin

I make up my mind just fine, I get to sleep whit who ever I want.

i dont need anymore attention.

I love sex, both with men and women, It's not an attention thing, it's not a confusion thing, I am not "still searching". I just love sex.

2007-02-02 12:26:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

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