my friend...gone...what should i do?

Question

PART ONE!!!



This friend of mine, we've bein friends since i was a sophmore & he was a junior. we met in algebra class. we had fun jokeing around in glass and all. Then we found ourselfs in this "credit recovery" program. I was so upset about going there i dident talk to anyone. my friend left in 4 months & i left
8 months after & ive forgoten about my friend 3 months after he left. I became a junior. comepelty changed. i dressed nicer, lost waight, more matture and all. When i went back to regular school i was a eyeopener. peeopel saw me all changed and all. when i was walking by the hall i saw him. my friend. the looked slightly diffrent. still had that big body, not too buff and not too fat either..less fat. then he had this wierd haircut i think a african american will wear. my stomech felt all weird. like i want to be his friend agin, he game me the precents of a older brother...now we dont talk at all. he only gave me a head nodd once and thats it....
read part two.

PART TWO!!!!


he has a girlfriend now, and which makes it harder to talk to him.
and even if his girlfriend was out of school for a day, you'd think i had a chance right? wronge...hes part of a click now. which is even more harder for me to talk to him because there always together. and.....i envy that somehow. ive become obsessed with it- trying to know every detail about that click. i want my friend back so dear that i wish i havent stopped talking to him. its hurt...
its stupide for a guy like me to say that but it did. i see him everyday...without any " hey" or "whats up" can you imagine the pain i must be feeling? can you please help me out?
please sisriouse answers.... i need good adivce.

i send him messeges in myspace, but he wot reply. does this mena he wants nothing to do with me?

Answer 1

Well its a friend so of course you'd be mad if you lost a friendship.But you got to remember People out grow each other everyday, but if it really bothers you and if you'll we're really good friends call him, Or just go up to him, just talk to him some how.You gotta have the balls if you wanna at less see whats up with your friendship.Good luck

Answer 2

I think you shoud say "hey hows it been going with you anyway" then go on to say, have you seen ( name a movie you have been intrested in seeing) and if he has not then say Hey dude want to go see it this weekend and if you have a girlfriend tell him you all can double date if not say hey does your girlfrined have a friend? you just have to talk with him, it will make it better for you break the ice ok just do it whats the hurt? mayeb he is feeling the same way about you

Answer 3

hmm... i wonder what credit recovery program is about... i'm sure it got both of you to your senses, though... i think you both were too appalled to be in that program that you suddenly kept to yourself... either that or you were not encouraged to talk/joke around too much by either parents or peers...

so i believe it's just a sudden cut of communication and you just gotta start talking to him again... see how it goes from there... maybe start with a serious talk and tell him the truth about what has happened to you then and now... then let him share with you too... hope everything turns out fine :) if not, there are other people who will be friends with you, just find them :D