2 years ago, my "best" friend told lies about me and my friends excluded me from group projects and work. now, it's still affecting me even though i have new, really good friends and i think i might be depressed. it keeps getting worse, but i don't want to see a doctor. what should i do? does anyone know why she did this? and also, who agrees with me when i say she's a b1tch?lol just asking
2007-02-01 17:04:36 · 10 answers · asked by laura03125 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She might have done that because you where getting more attention.There could be alot of reasons.But theres nothing she could come up with that would be good enough.There is no exscuse.She was not a true friend and that is the real reason.As long as you let this bother you,you can not move on.I would ask her why she could be so indivtive,mean, and hateful.Even if you never talk to her again.You must forgive her and letthis go.You are letting her win.A true friend would have never done this to you and you are worth more than that.She isn't worth your time or energy.You need to focus on what and who you do have now.Put her in the past where she belongs.It will make your heart heavy.I know it is hard not knowing.You feel you need to know.I am speaking from experience.I went through the same thing.You have to forgive and just know this had nothing to do with you.Everything you do comes back on you so she is going to be hurt just like you.When this does happen she will finally see what she did to you.Don'y let her get you down.She is not worth it.You need to say to yourself.I am way better than this.You know what a true friend you are.You know you would never do that to someone.She doesnt deserve you.Know your worth.You want to make her feel very very bad.Call her up and say I forgive you.That's all you say.Don't even ask her why she did it.You might not see it but this well get her more than anything she did to you.
Good Luck!
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2016-04-30 18:32:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience I use to have a "best friend" as well but all the sudden she turned her back on me. Yeah, I will admit its pretty sad and you wonder why this happened. But after my sadness I was pretty pissed off. Why should you be sad for somebody inconsiderate like that? I made new friends like you but it wasn't the same because I just didn't trust anybody or wanted to put the time and effort...for what? I ended up being stronger and I know you will too. Its all jealousy if you think about it. I think its best for you to forget about it and try to get it off your head because its not going to make it any better. Focus on yourself and making yourself happy and forget that b)tch.
2007-02-01 17:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by ♪♫♫♪ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well Accepting the truth will make you free,,Don't let your life miserable from the past cos you just let your self put in burden..To be away from that feeling is you re choice..Seek the the words of God and Pray cos everything was come from Him and only him Can gave you Peace from within...Whatever the reason they have , im sure they dint really mean that,,That was just a part of there life that they are not Perfect too or maybe they are not really aware of the feelings of the others.
2007-02-01 17:14:01 · answer #4 · answered by naomi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm... yes, she's a b*tch, and yes, it's depressing because your friendship and trust have been betrayed... over time you just realize that the only way to live is to forget the bad stuff, remember the good stuff (focus on the positive) and accept your life the way it is. don't compare so much also, and get a goal and work towards it... unfortunately i'm in this kind of situation too but i'm working at accepting my life... yeah, it's difficult, but that's what new friends are for!!! :) gd luck...
2007-02-01 17:27:53 · answer #5 · answered by wat_more_can_i_say? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she wasnt a good friend. My advice would be to enjoy your life with your new friends and move on.
Whenever you feel down or depressed about this matter just think of how she treated you and say to yourself you deserve better.
2007-02-01 17:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know...i understand.
Something similar also happened to me and it's been 4 yrs but i haven't been able to overcome these memories.
I am left to wonder if i ever will.
However i try to focus the present moment
2007-02-01 19:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by goldengirl_missevolution 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your needy that is why you were treated poorly.if you dont want to see a doc and that is stupid then eat saint johns wart it works wonders on sadness .
2007-02-01 17:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
ha well no lie i have the almost same problem just forget about it and if you cant then try to talk to her
2007-02-01 17:10:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
try councilling it may work
2007-02-01 17:42:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋