I am 24 years old and have been dating a guy for 3 1/2 years. He wants to buy a house and get married. I feel like I should go and experience more things in life before I settle down. The thing is I love him very much and know that he would be a perfect husband and partner in life. Do I venture out at the risk of losing him and not finding someone as great as him when I am ready to settle down or do I stay? Has anyone else been in this position?
2007-02-01 16:58:11 · 5 answers · asked by salsadancingtiffany 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
you need to do what is right for you. it normal to feel as you do
you are only 24 and there is a lot of life out there and you might
regret it down the road and you will blame him for it, if you
are not ready to settle down then be honest with him and let him
know that you love him but you just not ready . you may nerver
know if he the one for you or not.
2007-02-01 17:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be able to settle down until you're ready to settle down. Life is full of risks, choices- take some
2007-02-02 01:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally if u know that u love him u guys should get married. then also if he does love you l he will be there for you to experience things that u want and u can do the same with him
2007-02-02 01:34:47 · answer #3 · answered by random at its finest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he loves you then he will put his plans on hold for you. And you will have to make sacrifices for him 2
Let him know you plan to be with him for the rest of your life, so why rush into marriage now?? If you're going to be with him forever, whats the harm in waiting?
2007-02-02 01:08:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be honestly tell him how you feel about it, but try not to get into argument. I believe that if he respects you, he will consider your decision. Don't be afraid to lose him as this will test the relationship of both of you. Anyway, you are still young.
2007-02-02 01:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by Huggy Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋