Is SEX really all its cracked up to be?

Question

Alright here are the facts: Im attractive. Iv had 3 serious relationships and in my fourth now, iv had minor relationships here and there ( like every one else) im in university, im 21, i am well connected and im Still a virgin. its a personal choice, ( upbringing church yada yada) and i like being a virgin and waiting till marriage.)

I Need to know: Is SEX really all its cracked up to be? or am i not missing out on much? Is sex as GREAT as one who hasnt had it thinks? or is it just another New phone? new car? then it becomes nothing short of a routine? (given ofcourse that There is love Etc - thats all taken into consideration) So? Any takers?

Answer 1

Making love with the person you love - sharing that joy - is the greatest thing in the world. After 7 years of marriage, my wife and I are still honeymooning.

No problem with waiting until you're married. You probably won't enjoy the first few times much, but it gets exponentially better with practice.

Answer 2

Hmmm, good question. CBC television recently aired a documentary on the subject of chocolate:

"It's the most popular flavour in the world and as CHOCOLATE CONFIDENTIAL reveals, the lengths to which some people will go to pursue their passion for chocolate are amazing. Some would say that chocolate rivals sex as a universal obsession. You can drink it, eat it, it's good for your heart and can even be a beauty tool—chocolate is a billion dollar industry."

I tuned in a little bit late but I do recall when women were asked "Chocolate or Sex?", many stated they preferred the chocolate.

If you have some reason you don't want to have intercourse then you can eat chocolate instead. Hmmm, on the other hand...there's something to be said for good old-fashioned carnal LUST and you'll never know which you prefer unless you've tasted BOTH. On that cheery note, have a Hershey Bar on me!

Answer 3

Here is my personal experience. I too waited until marriage. The first time I remember thinking "Is that all? Why does everyone make such a big deal of this?" But I liked that it made my husband so happy and gradually I began to like it too. Maybe even more than he did.

Answer 4

You are trying to answer an emotional question with your head. This will not work. You have to explore your own feelings, wishes, fantasies, values, desires, dreams. This is very personal and your own body and soul will tell you the answer, not strangers on the internet.

Answer 5

I think it's pretty fun, especially with the right people. Personally, I love the female body, especially the way it responds when she is aroused (and that look they give you when they are ready to pounce on ya is totally mesmerizing . . . )

If you don't want to do it, or don't think you're ready then don't.

Answer 6

Sex is great if you have the right partner. One who knows what he's doing and who cares about his partner's satisfaction as well as his own. Then there's nothing better. Probably not much worse if he doesn't.

Answer 7

the stress felt between 2 people who decide to do something sexual together yet carry back. You adult adult males needless to say connected many cases so 'sexual stress' substitute into used out of context. the guy needless to say would not be conscious of what sexual stress means, in any different case he might have used it in perfect context.

Answer 8

its only as good as it sounds if you know or have someone that knows what they are doing ... but yes it is all its cracked up to be .... hell humans are programed for sex ...its right up there next to survival in the top 3 instincts ... but it is different for everyone so its variable

Answer 9

It depends.......sometimes it's ok and you just want to get it over with and somtimes, when it's with someone you really love and have a great connection with it's wonderful.

Answer 10

Yes, it is all that and more, but only if you are with the right person!