My "frined" and I are having a fight. I've only known her since the begining of the school year and she has completley taken over. She stole one of me BEST friends away from me and now we're in are 13th fight of the year. I never did anything and she got really mad. The only thing I did was hit a volleyball out of her hands beacuse I was playing with her, and she does it to me all the time. SO anyway now she threatened to kill me if I talked to her or touched her ever again. I did the same thing to another one of her friends and I got suspended. Should I tell on her and try to get her suspended, or should I just talk to her and see what she does?
2007-02-01 16:29:49 · 17 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No one has the right to threaten any physical harm or to kill you.
talk to a trusted family minister or relative and a lawyer.
she needs help and you need to be safe.
By all means speak up and move on.
stay as far away from her and her friends as you can.
The friend that left you for her was no real friend.
2007-02-09 14:32:10 · answer #1 · answered by andreamarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you investing your time into this drama. I am sure that you are above this and can find some new friends who will value your humor and friendship. To much teen time is wasted on drama and if you buy into it, you become the other persons B-tch.
So, do yourself a favor and walk away from them all and get some better friends. It is not like she has been friends with you
forever? The only one that was supposed to be your friend betrayed your friendship. So, what is that worth?
Sorry you have been hurt, but you do not need to be their forever victim too.
Tracylyn S
2007-02-02 00:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tracylyn S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its still a mystery how bestfriends have the biigger fights then normal friends. anyways. yes, try talking to her.
tell her why did she had to suspend you for it too.
and tell her all these things that "what went wronge"
people love to hear the word sorry so go for it
simpel words liek sorry can repair your guys freindship see?
but if that dosent work, and she still denies you then just fight back,dont let youself be thrown to the ground and stay there.
no. stand up, and fight back. what she said to you "that she will kill you" is a major type of harassment. tell person that your going to inform this that you felt highly harassed and indangerd.
i bet when shes called to the office shes ganna say "but i was just joeking around with her" and ofcours like you said she jokes around with you all the time. well karmas a...well you know. good luck and dont let her win.
2007-02-02 00:49:03 · answer #3 · answered by Im This Guy... 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would confront her and make the confrontation as final as possible. If you 2 fight all the time, why do you consider her your friend? Use as much violence as necessary to make her understand that you are the one in control, not her. Then plot to undermine her at all of her endeavours and make her look like a fool in front of all her friends and the entire school if possible. Destroy her happiness and it will bring you so much joy in doing so.
2007-02-09 14:29:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
hope u aint still mad at her for stealing ur best friend?
why did u hit d volleyball out of her hand and did u hurt her doing dat?
talk to her and know her grieviances on u and tell her urs.
2007-02-09 07:27:45 · answer #5 · answered by sandra james 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off she ain't your friend. she sounds more like a person who looks for people to hang around with that she can control. she can't STEAL anyone from u. the best friend left on her own which does not qualify her as a best friend. find yourself another group to hang with that will accept u and not bully u.
2007-02-02 00:36:52 · answer #6 · answered by kimberly v 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow, she threatened to kill you, that is not a friend, not even an acquaintance, leave her alone. Stay alive, get some new friends.
2007-02-07 05:00:25 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok that girl is weird. if she did this to you then i think it would be fair to go explain to the principal or whoever and see what they'll do about it. and you guys got in a fight because you knocked a ball of her hands?? that's kinda lame.
2007-02-02 00:39:07 · answer #8 · answered by Shookoolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
stay away and contact the police she threated to kill you,,make a report against her
2007-02-09 21:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by jerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a *****!!
i'd find a new friend sweetheart..
and no
be the bigger person and let her feel bad for getting you suspended...
she'll notice what she's missing..
when you have a new best friend....
2007-02-02 00:41:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋