cuz i think im having second thoughts of having a baby when i grow up...
2007-02-01 15:58:20 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
its indescribable...it hurts thats all i can say..dont be afraid though...you dont even remember it as soon as you see the baby..thats why women have more than one child!! if we remembered the pain..one would be enough :)
2007-02-01 16:01:33 · answer #1 · answered by Shina Beana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you are ready to have a baby, your thoughts should be somewhere else. Not concentrating on the pain. Pregnancy is a wonderful experience if you are at an age to appreciate all the beautiful changes your body is going through. It's an amazing experience. By the time you have gone through nine months of pregnancy, the only thing going through your mind will be, "GET IT OUT". LOL. You won't remember the pain when you look back. And when that beautiful child is in your hands, you would do it all over again.
P.S. And when all the talking in the world isn't enough, there is always really good pain meds!
2007-02-02 00:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by naliwad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a pain that you cannot fully understand unless you experience it for yourself. Nothing anyone else says prepares you for it. It is so overwhelming at the time that it takes much concentration just to keep breathing without hyperventilating. But the pain of childbirth is soon forgotten after you have the sweet little bundle of "joy". Having the baby, even with all that pain, is the easy part. Raising the child is the hard part - - - it will be the biggest challenge you'll ever experience. When the time comes, you'll be ready, if you wait until you are older and (happily) married.
2007-02-02 00:49:41 · answer #3 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It hurts, I'm not gonna lie, but you will get to a point in your life that you want a baby so much that you wont care how much pain is involved, I'm not sure how old you are but I didnt even want kids but magically when I was around 18 I couldn't wait to become a mom, just give yourself time. And as far as the pain (not that I endorse it-I'm a natural homebirth girl), there are pain management options available during labor.
2007-02-02 00:03:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt, but you do get options for pain relief such as epidural or gass I mean some women do it without any drugs. The pain will go away when you hold your baby. Any way you have plenty of time to think about that later and I'm sure your views will change as you grow older.
2007-02-02 00:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a baby and I never though I would have one. People told me horror stories and I chose not to listen I got pregnant and I had less than an hour of labor. Being pregnant is fun and it can be a very nice time in your life. It's fun getting pregnant too. Wait and get married then have a baby it will be the best choice you ever made.... My daughter is 8 and i'm so glad I had her....
2007-02-02 00:04:40 · answer #6 · answered by Tracey Fahnestock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends. If you and the baby are healthy and you wish to have medication to ease the birth you can. They have medication to take away some or all of the discomfort. Or if you go the no medication route and you are in tune with your body, it becomes mind over matter. It is a wonderful experience. Consider it when you are much older. :)
2007-02-02 00:03:00 · answer #7 · answered by Mother of Four and More 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are medications you can get and epidural anesthetics, that make the pain completely bearable. I remember that the pain was bad, because epidurals weren't readily available when I had my kids, and the first was completely natural with no medications at all, but I can't recall the actual pain itself. It was worth every bit of discomfort. :)
2007-02-02 00:04:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 beautiful daughters and did not feel a thing...no pain nothing....mind you my wife was in agony during all 3 deliveries and called me all sorts of names etc as if all the pain was my fault.... now how wrong is that!!!! After each delivery I asked her was it really painful and she said that she really could not remember!!! Gee its difficult to understand girls sometimes!!!
2007-02-02 08:37:50 · answer #9 · answered by alanickers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like $hi++ing a tree trunk, it hurts like hell and I had the epidural it wore off. You will know for sure if you want children when you get older and you won't care once you have done it it is worth every stitch!
2007-02-02 00:03:26 · answer #10 · answered by Daisy Mae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋