Shes sixteen, whos engaged to a eighteen year old as crazy as it sounds. and hes not right for her. She told me she would wait to go anh further till after college but still. how do i make her see that wat shes doing is insane.
2007-02-01 15:18:32 · 5 answers · asked by bobby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I say, you should try to talk to her just you and her. Explain how difficult life may be to marry at that age. Use the "Picture yourwself in twenty years" saying. Also, you could try talking to her fiance too. Just talk to them, tell them not to make the biggest mistakes of their lives, trust me if they listen to you they'll have much better lives.
2007-02-01 16:23:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, if I could only talk to her. I can say everything that was told to me....think of your future...there is more on the menu.....this is for the rest of your life. I can tell you from experience I was so blind. Why did I even think it was now or never and that should have been my first red flag. I would do anything you can. Maybe map out the big picture and let her know people don't change very much and if she thinks this guy will grow up someday she'll be waiting a long time. My ex-husband is still sitting on the couch.
2007-02-01 15:26:50 · answer #2 · answered by BlueEyes 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if your a guy.......do all you can and if that dosen't work cry and say it again I'm just gonna say this it takes a true man to cry so I hope this helps.
2007-02-01 15:33:34 · answer #3 · answered by A.C. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant make her see it she has to see it on her own. Some lessons you just have to learn from experience.
2007-02-01 15:55:37 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her calmly and tell her how you feel about the groom to be. She should understand.
2007-02-01 15:25:20 · answer #5 · answered by grandview.prosser 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋