ok im a female 14.3 year old with a male guidance counselor at skool and female shrink who i c twice per week. i wont see my shink tomorrow and i hav something going on tomorrow im nervous about. can i talk to him about it if i can see him? it involves female-things like horomones and puberty and crushes on boys & stuff and its an out-of-school issue.
2007-02-01 15:17:15 · 13 answers · asked by the5500 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
is it in innapropriate to talk about female things to male guidance counselors
2007-02-01 15:26:10 · update #1
ifi knew that it was not really innapropriat e to talk about female things that are generally problems amongst females that have to do w puberty and horomones and stuff then yea i'd feel comfertable
2007-02-01 15:27:12 · update #2
i feel comfeRTAble doing it But is it appropriate
2007-02-02 14:50:48 · update #3
I would talk to an adult female if I were you. You would both be more comfortable, and a female would probably know more.
2007-02-01 15:21:14 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The question is do you trust him? If so, then I think it would be okay. You could even let him know that he's not your first choice, but you need to talk to someone. I am positive somewhere in his background/training he is prepared to deal with things like this. Don't worry, he's not going to blab it all over the school, and could probably give you some good advice, even if he is a guy. I have 2 teen daughters 15/13 and they sometimes go to their dad for a "guys" point of view. (he's not always ready for their questions and they do roll their eyes sometimes at his take on life in "girl world", but the girls appreciate his perspective on things and he actually gives out great advice.) Good luck.
2007-02-01 23:53:37 · answer #2 · answered by foodoflovebaby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I would talk to an adult female if I were you because they will have a better understanding of what is going on. If there is a teacher at school that you feel comfy with go to her, I am sure she will listen. However, if you don't feel there is anyone there you can trust, approach him and ask him if he feels it is inappropriate. If he does, ask him if he can give an idea who you might talk to.
2007-02-02 12:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can talk to him, if you are able to see him. What matters is, do you feel comfortable with talking to him about the situation? If that's not a problem, then it is ok. If not, you may want to let it be known, so that way, you can talk to someone that is easier to speak to for you.
2007-02-01 23:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by mzebonyquen 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey,
I used to have male counseller.. and told him everything about EVERYTHING. People are trained in that sort of stuff.
I have female shrink who i see mabe once every 2 weeks or weekly and shes great. helped me thorugh a lot of things. Mabe you should wait until you see your shirck she mabe able to give you a better femake advice as she had bin the there herself.
good luck
2007-02-01 23:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by bladetroubles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he has been certified to deal with all sorts of problems and questions. No matter how personal or impersonal you may feel it is, he isn't going to make you feel uncomfortable about anything that you say to him. It is okay to say what you need to say to the man.
2007-02-02 10:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Confused & Young 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you trust him its OK to talk to him its part of his job he is the only one some girls have to talk to you just have to ask him if he is comfortable for him to talk to you about it if your not comfortable talking to him and have no other female to talk to you can e mail me and we can talk i am a single mother of 4 kids with 3 foster kids my oldest daughter is 19 so i have Been though it all myself and with her and have 3 foster daughters they are 13 14 15
2007-02-01 23:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by debrasearch 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to an adult you trust. They can help you. (preferably a female)
2007-02-01 23:22:48 · answer #8 · answered by robee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely. Get a hold of him and tell him you need to talk.
2007-02-01 23:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by asoobee 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yes
2007-02-01 23:25:46 · answer #10 · answered by collinsnba 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋