I have no signs!Help!?

Question

Ok,Im confused and Idk whats what.Ok,in starting November 2006,I started 2 get weird stomach aghes(cramps)And it continued until about almost 2 months.Now recently I didnt get cramps at all.When I did,Ihad signs sort off of havin my period like discarge,cramps,stains,(like sortoff colroish thats kindoff signs)and now I have no cramps,not alot of discharge(well time over time)and I dont feel any signs at all.Whats happening 2 me?

Also I get mood swings.

Also I forgot Im 13 and I dont have my period yet.

Answer 1

From the sounds of things, you are trying to start having menstrual cycles. You need to speak to your mother for starters, and might benefit from a trip to see the doctor if things don't improve. If the stains you were seeing were brownish red in color, that would fit the start of a period. You may or may not get cramps, and the whole other list of "signs". What happens before your period starts will be individual to you, and you will have to learn to read your own body to detect them. Your cycles may not happen every month just at first, you may have cramping one time and not another. The first few periods may be so light you barely need a pad or panty liner, but then again you may have one that lasts four or five days. It just depends on you and your hormones. Your mom needs to know whats going on with you and what's been happening, so she can help you out. It's nothing to be embarassed about, or afraid of the doctor about. What you describe are the normal things that happen at your age, as you body makes the change from little girl to young woman. It's a big change with lots going on inside you, so it won't all go perfectly from the start. Just speak with your mom and things will be fine.

Answer 2

It just sounds like you are getting ready to have a period. You need to talk to your mom and she should be able to help you out.Good luck!