My wife agreed to a threesome with another woman. When it came to it she told me she would rather I just watch, so I did. The next day I came home early from work to find her and the lady going at it again. Do you think they were just practicing so they would be really good for me next time? Man, my wife must really love me.
2007-02-01 15:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You're last sentence tells me this is trolling... But for Internet posterity I'll answer seriously here.
If the situation you outline above did happen your wife doesn't understand the rules of engagement in swinging. It is a couples activity done done a couple for the couple. If it benefits the couple then it's good. If it benefits only one member of the couple then it's bad. If she had sex with anyone, male or female, without asking you first this isn't swinging... this is cheating.
Being newbies you probably haven't discussed this in depth yet and this could just be a first-time mistake because neither of you understand how it all works yet. But you should talk about it and set down some ground rules before you continue swinging.
A great resource for real information about swinging is The Swingers Board http://www.swingersboard.com .
2007-02-02 03:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Priscilla L, Sorry to read that you have had such a bad experience with a threesome. Having had a few threesomes while being married I can give you some insight. Your posting reads as though this was a surprise / impromptu threesome and by that I mean there was very little if any discussion regarding having a threesome. Furthermore this is complicated by the fact they are co-workers. I will address the co-worker issues first and then the meatier threesome issue. Regardless of what you husband believes he does stand a very good chance of loosing his job. Co-workers and threesomes do not mix as they are a volatile mix which employers do not like. Reason why employers do not like such a situation includes a liability issue for them, drama, low employee morale, and a variety of other issues. Having read your posting I will not comment if I feel they planned it as I do not have enough information to arrive at a conclusion. However I will say there are several points where your husband has crossed the line and should have discussed with you. Moving onto the threesome I suspect what has happened is this the friend had a boyfriend and she did not tell him what she had planned. Once he found out he broke up with her and on the rebound the second threesome happened. Because this threesome is full of issues you husband, for lack of a better word, has become addicted to the excitement that this threesome is providing him. I suspect he has a need to feel needed and feel important which she is allowing him to do. My advice is you need to put an end to the threesome with her and work through what has happened. Second you need to be prepared that you husband will most likely either be fired or disciplined for fraternizing with her. If the two of you are not able to separate from her you will loose him.
2016-05-24 04:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best friend let this happen. He got to participate. Up until the divorce cause his wife wanted her cake and eat it too. Sorry getting vulgar. I better stop now. Decide if you like her cheating or get the divorce now and save a lot of pain. 9 out 10 former presidents agree that eating is cheating.
2007-02-01 16:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by friendly advice from maine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say. It seems to me that she does not want you to participate. Maybe she has second thoughts seing you with another woman. At any rate, your wife sounds sexy as hell. It's such a turn on to see two women go at it. My advice to you is try really hard to get involved with this threesome. You might like it! Let me know how it turns out!
2007-02-01 15:14:05 · answer #4 · answered by trapper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, they were "practicing" for you.
Sounds like since you agreed to let him do it the first time, she's gonna keep going with the other woman as much as she wants now. Doubt it has anything to do with you, buddy.
2007-02-01 15:24:27 · answer #5 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, maybe you should practice too, and surprise her when
she comes home early from work by finding you with a big
burly truck driver humping you up your a$$.
2007-02-01 15:15:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea right they were practicing so they could put ona better show for you. They were there without you cause they wanted to enjoy each other without you watching.
2007-02-01 15:23:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahahahaha " my wife must really love me" ahahahah sorry but that's the stupidest thing i heard today you are just ignorant and they are just playing with you maybe even they have being together for a while and you are just blind honey it wasn't for you and you know it!!!
2007-02-01 19:00:34 · answer #8 · answered by revolution 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAHAHAHA!
Sure, sweetie, they're dedicating that time all for you--and not because they simply lust after each other.
Love is wonderful, eh?
2007-02-01 15:10:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is her girlfriend. Maybe that is why she did not want you to sleep with her.
2007-02-01 15:10:20 · answer #10 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋