My husband does not like to have sex with me because he says that my behavior turns him off is that possible?

Question

ok i am a brat and i do ask him for alot and i nag him but i get pissed that he does not do things. i have a very out spoken. how do i stop that too

ok i am a brat and i do ask him for alot and i nag him but i get pissed that he does not do things. i have a very out spoken. how do i stop that too

Answer 1

Yes...who wants to have sex with someone that they're not happy with.?

Answer 2

Yeah, if you have a bad attitude or nag all the time, his interest level is dropping the whole time. Unlike women, however, men will often stick it out while there interest level works its way down to almost nothing. Women often leave a relationship not too long after deciding the pros outweigh the cons, and that's part of why 70% of all divorces are filed for by women.

It also probably plays a role in why men stay in a relationship and cheat more often (I do not support this behavior, and I say you should get divorced before you sleep with somebody else).

So... the good news is that Rover doesn't run away as quickly as Kitty. The bad news is if you keep beating the dog, he's more likely to behave badly before he runs away.

Men and women want the same things in a relationship: and interesting mate and partner with some class, a good attitude and integrity who respects them and is affectionate and ocassionally romantic, somebody who makes them feel they are better off than if they were alone, yet gives them enough space to continue to grow as an individual.

It's not easy, but stop smacking Rover on the nose with the newspaper, and you're halfway there.

Answer 3

First off to get to the point you must be submissive to your husband you cannot expect him to do things for you if you act that way. You have to learn how to ask him and not nag him trust me you can get him to things a whole lot faster that way. Also show him that you do not need him for everything and start doing stuff for yourself. It is one thing to be outspoken but another thing to bother the hell out of someone. You have to let him be a man honey. Let him have his space and you have yours. Do not treat him like a child because there is one thing that i have found out about a man is that they treat you the way you want to be treated and men are way more sensitive about somethings than women are. There are some men that want to be needed and feel needed and there are some that want to let you do everything. and there are those that are a mix of both. depending on the one that you have you have to think and value your husband and appreciate him. Once you show him how much you love him and care then he will have as much sex as you want because that is up a man's alley but you are contributing to him wanting to the strange things that men do like cheating and pornography so to save yourself you have to talk less and act more. By showing him with your actions and not with your mouth then he will definitely see a change in you. And when he does not do something right away then just wait a day or two and remind him not get on to him about what he has not done because doing that will cause him not to do it at all. and just ignore you. Stop being a brat and be a woman. when you were a child you acted like a child and did childish things but now you are a woman so put those things away. If you do not want your husband running out on you and going to someone else. It starts with sex then they complain about everything else. So start listening and doing and stop talking as much. As a wife your opinion counts but it best to show them better than you can tell them. In this case them would be your husband. He has feelings and is a person too so think of it in reverse what if your husband was you how would you feel if he were doing those things to you? Hopefully this helps and good luck God Bless

Answer 4

I don't usually answer sexual question because everyone flocks to those questions.
But:
What behavior does he specifically have a problem with.
Maybe you are too a aggressive or not aggressive enough.
You can do little things to try and change your behavior a bit.
I am not saying radically change yourself, as to the point where you are not enjoying yourself.
But, talk about the behavior that annoys him.
And, did it always annoy him?
How long have you been married?
WHat has happened that it annoys him now, but did not in the past?
Trying to think of something annoying:
Well, if my husband sq clucked like a chicken, for example: that would certainly turn me off.
I might have to see if we could replace that particular expression with another, more traditional one.
Adn, I would tell him and we would have to talk about it to try and modify it.

Answer 5

Absolutely it can happen....contrary to popular opinion, men are not sexual animals that can get it on at the slightest suggestion (although maybe we're close!); if you are doing something or acting a certain way that is making him angry or frustrated or bitter towards you, the last thing he will want to do is have sex with you.

Answer 6

Try not to nag and ask him for so much. Start doing things for him and show him how much you love him.

Answer 7

Yes it's possible. Men will always be men. They like their women to be feminine and submissive. Unfortunately, today's women seem to want to go the opposite direction -- they want to be the man in the relationship by being dominate. All this "I am woman, hear me roar" stuff is going to come back to haunt you.

Answer 8

Yes. I had the same problem with my husband, only he was the one with the bad behavior. He never understood how the 2 went hand and hand and it hurt our marriage.

Answer 9

You haven't given much info, so I'll guess you're more experienced than he is and you're taking the lead too aggressively. If that's so, you're robbing him of his need to "possess" his woman. If you really love him and want to make him happy, be more passive. Once he indulges his enjoyment of dominating (there's nothing wrong with that) he'll gradually enjoy your enthusiasm. Be his slave - you'll love it.

Answer 10

he is not just telling the truth,he is just searching to cover up his wrong, no matter what you do he still should not deny you of your marrital right well to me is just trying to deceive himself there are some certing things you should know about things like this,just mail me for further answers.pastor faith[[e-mail]]