I use to have a friend since 10th grade we been friends for like 3-4 years. I did something wrong. I met someone in a party who i use to like a lot.... and my other friend liked a guy too but then she told me that my best friend liked my boyfriend and hers too and i believe it, i also believe that my best friend was talking to my other friends boyfriend and i doubted......... a lot of months passed by and i finally decided to tell my best friend evrything she cryied and got mad at me for doing that. She never called me again and either did i, and i wanna try to save my friendship but i really dont know what to do help me please....... Also i feel bad coz i havent call my best friend and i still talk to the girl who ended up causing our troubles but i like being with my other friend even if she brought the trouble......in fact i should have ended my friend ship with her instead of my best friend but i love hanging out wit my other friend what should i do?
2007-02-01 14:58:12 · 8 answers · asked by Daniella 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try to call your friend one more time to sort things out even though its been awhile. if its meant to be she will be happy to try to fix things if not then it was a good friendship that has reached the end of its cycle. not all friends will be with us for life. just remember the good times you had with her and move on with your life. i know it sounds hard but with time it will be easier, just look at it as one of life steep learning curves that we all sometimes have to face. good luck and hope it all works out for you
2007-02-01 15:06:06 · answer #1 · answered by chickenlegs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write her a letter, tell her how sorry you are and how you have been feeling real bad. Let her know you still cherish her friendship and would like to talk about everything. If she contacts you , then time to do just this, talk it over. You can end up being the peace maker, and all can be friends. It is nice when friends can talk things out and put their difference behind them. You will not know if she is willing to do this unless you try. If she talks and agrees, that is good. If she does not want to talk and make peace, then you should just move on and put yourself at ease that at least you tried to be the peace maker.
2007-02-01 23:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by m c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a very difficult question. I don't think you should bother trying to be her friend again. She won't accept you for doubting her and hurting her feelings. I would give up if I was you.
2007-02-01 23:09:02 · answer #3 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel that you should call and clarify e matter with her.. it might be a misunderstanding afterall.. but u shouldnt have doubted her in the first place.. talking to guys doesnt means that she likes them.. she might be trying to be friendly..
its best that the three of you meet up together and clarify things.. afterall.. im sure u wouldnt want to lose this two friends, one which is ur best friend, and one whom u enjoyed being with..
good luck to you =]
2007-02-01 23:07:38 · answer #4 · answered by glamourliciouss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendships have to be cultivated and nourished to keep going. You did the ultimate betrayal and this relationship may never be saved. You are the one to grovel and see if it can be repaired.
2007-02-01 23:04:39 · answer #5 · answered by Just ME 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should call you best friend..........you have hurt her.......and the other girl sounds like a trouble maker........Just remember if your friend said something about your best friend .......she will say something about you in time.........
2007-02-01 23:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by ginny3282 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You write a lot. But that's ok! I have a short attention span so I can't read it, but...
That's ok!!
Everything'l be ok, I'm sure.
And I'm sure my attention span isn't THAT sho- OMG DID YOU SEE THAT SQUIRREL!?!?!
2007-02-01 23:00:18 · answer #7 · answered by cheesey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try to tell her your sorry and ask her if she can ever forget that ever happened and we can be friends again
2007-02-01 23:03:34 · answer #8 · answered by Carl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋