November 28, 2006 is a day that noone at ELHS will ever forget.. that afternoon after step-team practice (hip-hop dancers) the mathteacher / step team coach, Bridgette Davis, was taking home two girls, my classmate who wasn't a friend, but i knew her out of school, Aylah Brewer and another girl (idk her name). They were in a car accident. it was raining and supposedly, Ms. Davis missed a stopsign and was struck on the drivers side by a ford F250 going about 50... Ms. Davis and Aylah (who was behind her in teh back seat) weren't wearing seat belts and, when the other girl walked away, they were air-lifted to a city 60 miles away to a large hospital.. Ms. Davis died on Saturday, November 30, 2006 after never regaining consciousnes... Aylah was a mess, all the bones in her face broken... her brain swollen,and blinded. She was getting better, really, she was awake and aware.. then tuesday night she suddently crashed.. at 7:05AM Wednesday December 4, 2006, Aylah Aleecia Brewer passed away.
2007-02-01 14:35:55 · 4 answers · asked by janna w 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my best friend went to church with her and were good friends... my cousins girlfriend, who is a closer friend that my cousin ever has been, and is like my big sister.. was her best friend.. had been for a LONG time... they had spent the last 7 months together and were.. inseperable...and she's still always talking about her and nearly crying.. hardly anyone can mention her name withought crying... Aylah was beautiful, sweet, smart... she could sing... the last time i had a real conversation with Aylah was almost a year ago.. during soccor season.. at the time,s he was dating my good friend Jamie and he's a soccer player.. it was cold so we went and got in his moms car and sang songs and hung out... everytime i see her face, or hear the songs we sang.. i can't help but cry.. Jamie and her had broken up long before this, but still went to the same church and were friends because her brother. her brother and jamie dont talk about stuff so they still have problems.. will it get better?
2007-02-01 14:41:48 · update #1
They say time heals all wounds... but, the scars remain forever. It is going to be a difficult time, with feelings of anger, loss and grief. Read up on the 6 stages of grief, this will give you a more positive outlook on what you are going through, and to know that what you are feeling are normal steps to the healing process.
2007-02-01 14:59:53 · answer #1 · answered by nuttin'fancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all things. I know at the time it doesn't seem so. As you grow it will lessen and get bareable. When I was in this situation before a person told me it will always sting a little, which helped cause I understood it and it felt true. That answer help more than the common ones. And know when I look back time has lessen the pain/sting but I will always remember, and it stings only a little now. It shows we care what happens to human life.
2007-02-01 14:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by BlueEyes 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope- your heart never goes back to "normal". Its now different. When you loose someone you are close to it changes everything forever. However, that loved one doesnt want you to cry and loose days of your life because they lost thiers. Live. You have to gain the courage to move on. She is with you every day. If she was close to you before she is even closer now.
2007-02-01 14:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by jeweledfruit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The pain you feel never really goes away....it does get better with time....but it takes time. But one never forgets the pain they feel. And anything can bring back a thought or a memory....they will continue to live through their friends...
2007-02-01 14:40:40 · answer #4 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋