theres a girl and i went out with her for two years then when she broke up with me i asked her if we could still be friends but she never said anything and now she alwyswalks away when im walking toward her i dont know if she ignoring me or what.
2007-02-01 14:26:52 · 16 answers · asked by Carl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
how do i ask her if we can still be friends and nothing more?
2007-02-01 15:54:05 · update #1
Walk up to her and ask her if she wants to be friends with her. If she walks away, then she probably isn't worth it.
2007-02-08 08:33:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she means a lot to you....her friendship means a lot to u, and u don't want to lose her as a person, then keep being persistent, but not in an overwhelming way. Get in touch with her once in a while and let her know u value her as a person. Perhaps she is confused. Maybe she is not totally over the relationship. Maybe it still brings back memories she can't handle. Maybe she is still angry or resentful about something. How long has it been since the breakup? Give her some time. And then if she is still avoiding u, maybe it's time to let her go. But communicating would really help if you can get her to talk. Just don't be pushy.
2007-02-01 22:35:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that when you asked her if you could still be friends or not and she did not answer, was because she probably did not have the guts to say no. If i was to be walking away every time i saw a guy i went out with it would have to be either because i was avoiding you or maybe she has some one else and they don't want her speaking to you. Hope this helps you out.
2007-02-01 22:34:43 · answer #3 · answered by colorred 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say why she broke up with you. Sorry to tell you this but I do not believe she wants to be friends. If she did she would acknowledge your presence at least. The truth sometimes hurts but it is best to face it and move on.
2007-02-09 09:26:40 · answer #4 · answered by Jodi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, Carl, girls can be mysterious creatures, and maybe you'll never know, but you can always be friendly to her anyway. Just stay friendly whenever you meet up with her, and maybe you'll finally figure out what she's thinking. Remember that life is short, and there are other girls out there who may be wanting to get your attention.
2007-02-02 22:55:30 · answer #5 · answered by In Honor of Moja 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her if she would like to be friends with you...if she says nothing or no, then let it be. Sometimes, it's difficult to be friends with an ex, so let it be!
2007-02-09 20:05:28 · answer #6 · answered by sillyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She might need grieving time... Space to close the past and move on before she is able to be your friend. Respect her space and privacy and hopefully things will turn around for you.
2007-02-09 22:12:54 · answer #7 · answered by Miss. Persephone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were u i would ttly ignore her 2 until she talks 2 u. she sounds like a jerk. if she wont be friends and nothing else then just dont let her.
2007-02-09 22:26:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult to say. She either doesn't want anything to do with you or is waiting for you to make the first move. You know, she probably wants you to approach her first.
2007-02-01 22:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Prayer Warrior 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think she doesnt know how to handle the situation in a mature manner....just ignorance and lack of experience on her part
2007-02-01 22:29:46 · answer #10 · answered by bertha 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋