Ok so my best friend and i have been best friends for a good 6 months and things were pretty great then all of the sudden things just got bad and we havent really been the same. Ive asked her what happend and she doesnt really give me answer. So we didnt talk to eachother for about a month and now i have no idea what to do she means the world to me but i dont think she cares if we are friends or not anymore what do you think?
2007-02-01 14:19:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
that is weird....you are going to have to be direct and ask her what is going on
2007-02-01 14:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:( ahh. thats weird though have all of a sudden things got bad. that is weird that yall didnt even have communication. a lot of things are unusual in the issue. but she should tell u what u did, or u will never know y she left u, maybe u didnt do anything. i have a friend like that and if i do the smallest things without realizing it i get the silent treatment. i think she may think about u all the time but for some reason she is going through a phase, i dont know what kind. she should still be ur friend as far as i am concerned. if u still love her and want her to be ur bff then call her, communicate and have a serious talk and lay down the law asking her, what've i done to make u ignore me and do u still want to be my friend? that is the only way to ever know. becuz if u dont talk ull always wonder about her and the possibilities that she was a great friend. hope i've helped. i hope everything gets better
love ya
smart blonde
2007-02-01 23:01:52 · answer #2 · answered by Smart Blonde! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a friend like this, not a bff, but a friend who I trusted and admired, after a good time of knowing each other, she started changing towards the relationship and I thought maybe it is just a phase. So, I gave her a chance, I tried to be the cheery person she seemed to like, and sadly things didn't change. So, I just brok off the friendship-by not speaking to her at all. I don't know to this day if she knows I broke off from her because of her behavior-I never confronted her. I remember the good times, and I'll never forget, but it also hurt to let go, but I also knew it was for the best-and guess what? I don't regret it. She didn't give me time like I gave her, so I chopped her-and I'm glad, she was like a burden on me, because I didn't know how to handle the awkward friendship, that was solid at one point. Now, I'm so happy and free and I could give a crap about her. :0) I do hope she realizes it was her loss and not mine :).
2007-02-01 22:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a new best friend. You only have 6 months invested. Be glad you found out now what a drama queen she can be.
Relationships should be based on trust, honesty and communication. It doesn't sound like you had this with her.
Just a question: You said she means the world to me.
If you only knew her for 6 months that sounds intense. You were not one of those clingy, over bearing single white female type of chicks?
Reference to the movie: Single White Female.............
If you haven't watched it I suggest you do. It's a great movie!!!!
Seriously I wouldn't obsess on this person find a new friend!!!!
2007-02-01 22:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men Let her Go....
She DoNt WAnNA BE uR FrienD AniMoRe
IgnoRe Her Da WAiI She diD u
FiNd ANoThEr BETtEr TrUStfuL GhEtTo Azs FrieND
And Trust me A GHEtTo OnE IZ GoNNA be Fun And KoOl...
2007-02-01 22:25:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
don't act clingy, or it will make her even more distant. just act friendly and be there for her, let her call YOU. if she cares about your friendship she'll realize it, and if not then theres nothing you can do. unless you want a one-way relationship
2007-02-01 22:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by ellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋