it's so horrible, they're even a year younger. one day i just started getting hate mail from a grade 10 and then the grade 8s started...they make fun of everything i do and everything about me...especially that i can only afford to go to zellers and i carry around a 'teen titans' backpack.
if you go on their nexopia, you can see they call me teen titan.
If I ignore them, they send me hatemail, if I get mad and spazz, they send hatemail and laugh at me more, and if i tell the principal they'll call me more names...
I don't even want to go to highschool next year because that grade 10 will be there to pick on me. I just want to die it's so bad. what can i do...
2007-02-01 14:13:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know you don't want to tell, but you HAVE to. Tell your mom, tell the principal, tell anyone.
Stand up for yourself. Be assertive. Don't ignore them. Stop tolerating their taunts.
You have the right to a bully-free education and the school should have a no tolerance program. If they don't have one, start one. Tell yourself "Today is the last day I will let somebody put me down!"
I know how you feel. I was bullied from 3rd to 7th grade. Those years were hell for me. But only because I let them.
This is a great website. I hope you get some help. It's horrible.
2007-02-01 14:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by colinsmumplus1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are having to go through all this. Kids can be so cruel. I do think you should tell the principal. I also think you should avoid using anything on the computer where they can send you e-mails or communicate with you. At school, just ignore them. I know it will be hard, but if you don't show any emotion to what they are doing, they will soon get bored and stop, or at least let up. I also think you should tell your parents. Don't let these immature brats put you over the edge. And please remember, you will soon be out of school and all of that will be behind you. Once those kids graduate, they soon realize they aren't special anymore. They are just another young adult trying to get a job. If I were you, I'd concentrate on getting good grades, graduating college, and with any luck at all you will be the BOSS of one of those little nitwits. Ask Jesus for comfort and help. Ask for His help daily. Your life will get better.
2007-02-01 14:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are in a terrible situation and you need to find
some way to get out of it. Those kids are just
sadistic little beasts and they won't let up on you.
You had best tell your parents how really bad it is.
If it was me, I would demand to change schools or
somehow get home schooling.
If you family does not want to move--or change you
to another school, you can get a prescription from
a doctor saying you cannot attend school. It
could be some kind of contagious disease or? I don't know how you would get a Dr to sign an Rx for
this. Don't go out and really get a disease now just
so you can get out of school. If you don't get away
from those little beasties, somebody will get hurt I'm going to send you an email and tell you a way.
2007-02-01 14:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bullying is a serious matter nowadays in light of several famous incidents involving school shootings. I would report the people to my parents and the school. If that didn't end it, then I would encourage my parents to have an attorney write a letter to the school and to the parents of the bullies threatening legal action. My kid was being bullied in grade school and when I found out about it I raised the roof with the school and the principal ripped the heads off the bullies. No more problems.
2007-02-01 14:20:12 · answer #4 · answered by jhartmann21 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
do not want to die over a bunch of loosers,who have no life and have to pick on you.more then likely there home someday will be a jail cell.is there any one you can talk to a relative or some one?i would talk to the police and ask them what you can do about them harassing you.there are laws about Harassing people.next time just laugh with them they wont know what to do.(even tho your laughting at what jerks they are.save that hate mail take it to the police.they can get in big trouble for that.but always let your school principle know that if something isn't done your going to the police i bet there do something fast.hold your head up you are better then them don't ever want to die because of these jerks.just hang in there.good luck .
2007-02-01 14:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by bassetluv 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
1) Print off their threatening emails, comments on your profile, etc.
2) Tell your parents, guidance counselors, and teachers about the bullying and harassment.
3) Contact the principal at your school and at the high school.
4) If they are threatening your life, contact the police in your local town.
5) If the bullying does not stop, then you could consider going to another high school.
2007-02-01 14:41:16 · answer #6 · answered by Scott 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all have you talked to your parents. make them get involved and talk to your principal. if they are sending you emails, then that is harassment, and against the law. save the emails, print them out and show the principal. he HAS to do something, dont take no for an answer.
next thing stop worrying about what people say about you , i was picked on all through school, and the great thing is you will be the one who actually makes something of yourself. unfortunately kids are cruel and they always will be, but harassment is one thing, and it MUST be stopped.
smile and be happy no matter what
2007-02-01 14:22:42 · answer #7 · answered by ema 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Beat the crap out of them. If you can't do that, ruin their lives. Spread rumors about them, mess up their school projects. This is pretty low, but if you have nough money you could get someone else to jump them, like a gang or something. Your best option is to learn how to box and wrestle(ju jitsu is good). Learn how to make good come backs, make fun of them, send them hate mail. Just retaliate, do SOMETHING. Trying to deal with it the "right way" obviously hasn't helped you. You've gotta make them stop and you've got to make them stop the hard way. There are all sorts of ways to hurt people. You've just gotta be smart.
2007-02-01 14:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by Snake 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It`s a really sad thing when others bully. They are bullying you only because they don`t like them self. Hold your head up high and don`t let any one get you down. Your bettewr then them and thats why they bully you. You have something they wish they had.
Your going to be ok and make something out of your life and they know it. Bullies never get any place. Just keep ignoreing them yes it`s hard but don`t let them get you down. YOUR BETTER THEN THEM!!
2007-02-01 14:30:59 · answer #9 · answered by spookieone48 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well to be a little honost, i dont really know what u shud do,i never got bullied b4.u needd 2 stand up 2 dem,cuz if u show dem that ur tough,they wont mess wit u.if u get into a fight wit sum1 in school make sure they around so they can see dat u aint a punk!straight up!
2007-02-01 14:18:59 · answer #10 · answered by brianna 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋