Okay, I know you're thinking that I finally told her that I love her. Not exactly. but I finally told my friend today that I'm jealous when she talks to the girl in the cube next to her. I had to, we were in the car and she started talking about her and I couldn't hold back. I said i miss her coming over to my desk and talking and now i always see her at this other girls. and that she'll all chummy and they're becoming friends and all. She got a scowl and said, "Friends? No." She asked me if I remember y she doesn't. because we got caught twice. And then she lowered her voice and got quiet. she says 2nd, i dont' know why i'm feeling like that, i have nothing to worry about. it really made me feel good.
so my question is: is she thinking this was just a jealous friend thing or do you think she knew why exactl I was jealous? Why did she get quiet and almost mumble i have nothing to worry about?
2007-02-01 14:07:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Her saying you have nothing to worry about isn't necessarily her addressing your true feelings for her, but the fact that she mumbled it is definitely enough to raise a (good) flag.
Honestly, to me, it sounds like the feelings are mutual. People to that mumbling all the time when they like someone. If I were you, and you weren't ready to flat out tell her, I'd drop subtle hints, see what she thinks and how open minded she is. And make the questions slightly more personal each time.
2007-02-01 15:08:17 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well,sometimes people can "read"how you're coming across.Perhaps she was feeling where you were coming from and was referring to your mutual attraction to each other not being interfered with;"you have nothing to worry about".Or maybe ,all the mushy stuff went over her head and she was simply referring to your friendship not being threatened by her talking to this other female......is the other female straight?..If so,regardless of what's going on,you don't have to worry about her stealing your woman.;)
2007-02-01 22:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Direktor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well u can usually tell when a woman likes u. Her getting quiet would make me wonder. Thats one way I can usually tell. Also the way a woman looks at you. Eyes are everything.
2007-02-01 22:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by Stacie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋