his first wife was when he was 18 and he has a daughter by her but she came home from a visit to family, pregnant..the second one (mother to his son) slept with his best friend and the third one was very bipolar and had issues but they had no children and then he was wanting to marry another girlfriend of 4 years but she broke it off. My question is while the first three "problems" were confirmed by family members, why do I still question this?
2007-02-01 13:53:24 · 11 answers · asked by chocolatesandbreakfast 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
isn't his pattern obvious????
people tend to live in cycles, they go round and round, same bad choices over and over again.
break the cyle, realize what it is. open your eyes wide!!!
2007-02-01 13:58:53 · answer #1 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are questioning because your gut is telling you that your husband is not some great guy who was had 3 failed marriages due issues with all of these women. My ex-fiance/children's father was married twice before. He fooled me good because he made it seem like it was his ex's fault that their marriages ended and he was this great guy who kept meeting the wrong women. When his true self was revealed I realized he was a habitual cheater who could not find happiness with anything. He is going through life going from woman to woman and has slept with about 100 women.
If your ex has a habit of cheating on women, then chances are he will continue this pattern. From the looks of it, your husband has no problem going from woman to woman. I would definitely watch out.
2007-02-01 14:34:04 · answer #2 · answered by LuvMyGirls 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 08:27:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is it exactly that you're questioning? The fact that he's claiming the reason his previous marriages failed wasn't his fault? Does it really make any difference? If you find out they were partly his fault, what then?
The past is past. You married him knowing he was married before, so let it go and get on with your life. Enjoy your husband and work to make sure that this is his final and last marriage!
Good luck!
2007-02-01 14:03:11 · answer #4 · answered by Ruby V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its obvious the old saying the third is the charm ,well its got to be wrong.. I don't understand the question ,you are questioning his marrying all of them and so on..its a matter of public record you can find them all on line on some sites for anywhere from 14.95 up ..easily confirmed.
2007-02-01 14:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me, that in all 3 cases, the women were the ones in the wrong...... at least in his eyes. Is that the way you see it? 3 bad women, and he is innocent in all this???? It seems awfully strange that every woman he marries, turns out bad(in his eyes). No, I think he has issues! All those women are not bad women! He might be the bad one himself, and has painted you a different picture. When someone continually runs down people from their past....better watch them! A word to the wise is sufficient!!
2007-02-01 14:08:12 · answer #6 · answered by olderbutwiser 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, the rule of thumb is: if he/she has been married once before, there's the possibility that it was the spouse's fault for the breakup; if he/she has been married two times or more, then they are the problem and you need to run very far and very fast from them.
2007-02-02 09:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're insecure. Don't let it bother you. Whatever happened is in the past. If it keeps bothering you it could cause problems in your marriage and you may be ex-wife #4.
2007-02-01 13:58:37 · answer #8 · answered by mypassions4life 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course they're not going to tell you what's wrong with your husband. You should know what's wrong with him by now. If he makes you happy it shouldn't matter why his other marriages broke up.
2007-02-01 13:58:08 · answer #9 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's a sap for marrying the wrong women or he did something he's not telling you about.
2007-02-01 14:01:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋