Why would you be called racist if....?

Question

I am white. And I will not allow my children to play with most black kids. My reason is NOT because they are black, it's simply because I do not like the way they talk. I don't want my child learning how to talk using words like "Dis" "Dat" "Foo". I want her to talk like an educated child. I don't want her listening to rap, I don't want her thinking that women are referred to as "B!tches" and "Hoes". It's basically about a certain lifestyle that I do not want her to be comfortable with. I wont allow her to play with any type of children that act or speak like this, but I have been called racist because of this reason. I am admitting that yes I do tend to stay away from people that act like this and it just happens to be they are black. I can't stand anyone that thinks it's cool to be obnoxious, and talk like they are retarded. I don't like the gold teeth, I don't like the huge "bling." Why is that called racism?

I also keep her away from the white children that act like this as well. My worse nightmare is for her to come home, with a million braids in her hair, listening to gangster rap. She is such a smart, and beautiful girl, that I just don't want her to throw her life away. I don't want her to be influenced bye rap music, and the videos that show a bunch of half naked girls bouncing their butts. And if I have a problem with it in the future, and she acts like this, then I will be blamed for it, because I didn't do my job as a parent. So it's a lose lose situation. I'm either racist or a bad parent. I would rather be called racist. But it just makes me mad, that I can't keep my children away from certain things, without being judged.

Answer 1

I don't think you're a racist.

Black people are alienating themselves by being anti-social and developing sub-culture of their own.

But you have to be careful not to teach your kids to be racist. Make sure they don't grow up thinking all black kids are sub-standard.