[1] So my best friend has this boyfriend that she is CRAZY about. In an obsessive stalker kind of way. And her boyfriend happens to be a really great friend of mine. And she's extrememly jealous. I've had about eight people tell me she's called me names such as, 'whxre', 'slxt', among many other things. She has asked me to stay away from him and stop talking to him. What should I do?
[2] Another friend of mine, her boyfriend just broke up with her and has been flirting with me alot. But she's not even close to being over him. So when he asked me out I threw the note away not knowing what to do. He saw it and now won't talk to me at all. He's extrememly hurt. And to make things worse my friend found out about the note [because a guy in my class got it out of the trash and read it to the class] and now she says it's my fault they broke up and she's really mad at me. What should I do?
2007-02-01 13:25:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
[3] I once had a good friend in this one guy until he got a girlfriend. Now he doesn't ever talk to me, doesn't even hug me anymore. She's changing him drastically. Into a better person I admit, he stopped doing drugs and stopped smoking for her. But now he doesn't have time for me. Should I just let him go and lose him as a friend? Or should I try to reform our friendship?
And to everyone I promise I'm not out to steal these girls boyfriends. I just have alot of guy friends.
2007-02-01 13:28:53 · update #1
[1] Your friend isn't a very good friend, you need to tell her to trust you! Its not like your secretly dating him. you shouldn't trust with something if she doesn't trust you!
[2] You need to tell the guy why you threw away the note and explain everything to him and say you didnt mean to hurt him. Tell your friend that you only threw away the note because you were thinking of her, if you would have said yes that would have been bad but your a good friend.
2007-02-01 13:32:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sorry to say this but if this is how your friend talks, she really has some issues, and really needs a chill pill, i mean wht friend would do this, and you live the life you are now don't change, the green-eyed monster is sticking some garbage in her head[I think she is JEALOUS], to bad she has to learn to act like a grownup again.
2007-02-01 21:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by island girl!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
[1] If she is a true best friend (clearly she's not) she wouldn't act this way. I say to tell her boyfriend about all this, cuz its most certaint that she doesn't want to be your firend now. Maybe she'll come to her senses.
[2] Try to sit down your friend with her exboyfriend and maybe you guys can tell her the truth. And if she won't accept it, well try avoiding both of them for awhile.
2007-02-01 22:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋