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i have know this grl who is ten and she's pregnant wut do i do im her parent

2007-02-01 13:23:03 · 44 answers · asked by answer everything girl 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

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The police need to be notified. They will deal with whoever got her pregnant. A social worker will come and check out her home atmosphere and whether she is now safe. They will also discuss all the options with you.

2007-02-01 13:26:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6 0

So... if you're her parent, you must have had her very young, because you obviously are not very well educated by the way that you spell and the way you put your sentences together. In that case, I don't understand how you can be mad at her, because it really just sounds like she's following in your footsteps. If you really are her parent, and she is only ten, you could consider having her keep the baby and raising as your own (10 year difference for siblings is not a big deal), but you have to know full well that at 10 years old, raising a baby is not something that she can do. Either the parent has to take responsibility for the child, or the baby might be better off in another home (adoption)

2007-02-01 13:30:49 · answer #2 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 2 0

first of all, if the person who did it is 18 or older then you need have his a** locked up. second, you need to seek help from a doctor on what routes would be ok to use in order to help her through this. some counseling should be in order as well. at 10 yrs old. i am not sure that she would be able to deliver a child the normal way because a ten year old, not to sound gross, shouldn't be developed enough down there to be able to pass a baby through. if she can carry the baby at all full term due to her age. if she can they will have to do a c section. abortion is not the right way to go unless it is threatening your daughters life by not doing it. a unborn child can still feel pain and is a alive human being. it deeply saddens me to hear things like this. i am not even sure where to start about how this could have happened. i mean a 10 yr old getting pregnant and all. just stand behind her and support her through this. she is going to need all of it that she can get and then some. find out who did this seriously and see what you can do about charging them with something through the police. i am so so sorry that you are going through this . this has to be tough for you. all i can say is love and be there for your daughter. these next few months are going to be really tough for the both of you. if you need someone to talk to and get advice from that will be serious, you can email me at ctaylor_2003@yahoo.com i really wish there was more that i could do but please email me if you ever need advice from someone who cares. hang in there.

2007-02-01 13:39:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 4 0

I believe that you are the ten year old by the way you wrote that, and what I would suggest is talk to your parents. Obviously there was a huge mistake made, a 10 year old shouldn't even know about sex in my mind. However what's done is done here and help is needed by the child. I'm sure the child is scared and confused but only the parents can step up and help with this tragedy. Also I wouldn't go around advertising it to the world around you, people are quick to judge when it's not them going through the problem.

2007-02-01 13:30:29 · answer #4 · answered by Casey B 1 · 3 0

Oh dear Lord. First of all, you get her checked by a Dr. She is too young physically and emotionally to even consider carrying a baby to term and raising a child. My sister-in-law (ob-gyn) says the health risks for a child that age to deliver are too great to consider her carrying a baby. You also need to get the law involved, because whoever the father is, had sex with a child...and he deserves to be punished. (I also find myself wondering, if you are this child's parent, just what the hell were you doing while you baby was out getting pregnant?) You also might want to consider using the spell check made available, because just the way your question is worded makes me wonder if the one pregnant is you...something about syntax etc. BUT that is not the issue. Please, Please go to the authorities and get that baby to a Dr. ASAP!!! It is likely the state authorities might step in and charge you with criminal negligence or what ever, but at least get that child some help.

In spite of what Felita2000 or what ever says about a 10 year old keeping her legs closed, which by the way is the most utterly unfeeling, crass approach I have ever heard, A child of 10 shouldn't have to make the decision to "keep her legs closed", she should be still playing with baby dolls!!! I don't believe you are capable of being her parent and this child needs to be removed from your home and placed with a family that can and will provide for her financially and morally. This child needs stability, and you can't or won't provide that for her.

2007-02-01 13:32:32 · answer #5 · answered by skye 4 · 2 0

You are so full of it! I've looked at your other answers, and you've said you're a teacher, a doctor, a guy, a girl, and a 16 year old. Every word out of you is a lie, including the words AND and THE! Stop needling people on yahoo and get back to your homework, because you need to learn how to write and spell.

2007-02-01 15:47:33 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 2 0

ok enable's define what we advise... the prevalent international, the human international... properly scientists can hint Human DNA back that far and to a single source (in Africa),,, so being an undemanding guy or woman i'm chuffed to pass with that, Do i've got faith there substitute into something in the past that... particular of path I do, yet I shop an open strategies as to what that could have been like. i don't be conscious of many Christians who might call themselves creationists... i think of it incredibly is a label different persons use as an insult, as though we in basic terms have one concept.

2016-10-16 10:38:39 · answer #7 · answered by serpa 4 · 0 0

ummm im 16 and pregnant and due in a couple of days, i've talked to doctors n such. its not really possible for a 10 year old to get pregnant. like, wow.. i dont know one 10 year old who ever has gotten their period. i've never heard of that, unless something is like wrong, like heaver set kids tend to get theres early, like 11 or 12. 12-14 is usually the age to get your period.

for some reason i dont really believe you. but umm deal with if you are telling the truth. she's got a lot of responsibility ahead of her. and so do you. Abortion is nothing but a way for unresponsible and lazy people to get away with what mistake they did. so im saying if you are telling the truth, support her and deal with it. get as much help from community programs as possible

2007-02-01 13:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Michila Noell 2 · 1 1

OMG!!! A child having a baby. Scary. Well she obviously can't raise a baby as she is still practically one herself. Maybe you could help raise the child. But I think the first thing that needs to happen is ask her why the heck she was having sex at 10...thats nuts!!!

2007-02-01 13:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by angie 4 · 3 0

i belive you should go to church an ask God to bring you through this. You dont want to abort the child, but your child is litterally having a child. also somethings not right if your ten year old is already having sex shes' still in elementary.

2007-02-01 13:33:06 · answer #10 · answered by little one 1 · 1 0

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