Please answer my question?

Question

i'm 14 and still don't know-
how do people have sexual intercourse? Like, what do they do? And how long does it take? I know this is kind of an odd question..but please just be honest-

oh, and what is masturbation?

i'm too embarraed to ask and have already had the classes at school.

Answer 1

Honey, you need to talk to your parents... not ask questions on this site.

Answer 2

Sweetie,

Masturbation is the act of achieving orgasim by yourself (Not in an intercourse). In females, the fingers or objects such as dildos or vibratores are used to masturbate.

Sexual intercourseis when the Male's penis (Dick) is inserted into the woman's vagina (P -ussy) and excited (back and forth does it)until orgasm and ejaculation occurs.

To have a sexual intercourse you need a condom and if necessary a lubricant.

When a male inserts his penis inside a girls vagina he start to move it back and forth and ejaculates (cums). The sperm which is the result of the ejaculation travels up the girls vagina and enters the cells. Note that the girls cells move towards the cervix, which is locateed after the vagina, so the sperm can enter them. Only one sperm will make it in a cell and the rest is wasted. The cell which contains the sperm will become ababy. A male uses a condom to prevent the sperm from entering the vagina.

There are many position to try during sex. for instence, missionary (Guy on top) a commonly used position for sexual intercourse by males, or Cowgirl (girl on top) is used by females.

The lenght of the sexual intercourse depends on the partners interest. For example, I personaly have an extremely health sexual apetite (really horny), therefore, i have sex for more that 40 minutes. It also depends on how long can the guy have a hard erection after ejaculating for the first time. It is harder to achieve orgasim for the second or the third time. Due to less lubricant. Thast where we use kubricants.

Lubricants are used to reduce the friction during sex, especially analsex.

SOME IMPORTANT NOTES:

- The vagina is a fragile orgasim, never insert sharp objects inside

- Never use lubricants that make your vagins numb (If u cant feel your vagina, you may insert a big object inside and tear it)

- Only buy nad use the lubricants in the stores (never use things like butter or oil to lubricate the vagins - It will cause infection)

- Make sure your boyfriend uses a condom every time he ejaculates

- The condoms he uses should not be expire or kept in a warm place (make sure he does that)

- Never try and immitate what porstars do in their movies (there are many tricks used in making a porn movie which you will not know - It can be dangerous)

- Practise normal sex and then move on to hardcore sex

- If interested in Anal sex, you MUST have complete knowledge of what you are about to do (Doing the wrong thing during Anal Sex can be really dangerous and painfull)

If you have any questions regarding sex or sexuality e-mail me at:
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Good luck and enjoy having SEXXX.

Answer 3

you'll know soon enough honey. everybody knows this when they reach a certain age. Dont go around asking strangers about this. You probably wont get a good answer anyways. This is not something you should be so bold and ask about at such a young age. Time solves everything.

Answer 4

If you are truely 14 then you shouldn't be trying to find out about these things on the internet. You should really be discussing this with an adult that you trust. If you have questions that cannot be answered by any adult check out the book "What your mother never told you about S-E-X"

Answer 5

well ok there is a girl and she has a vagina as you probally know and then theres a guy and he has a penis and well the guy sticks his penis in the girls vagina and thrust until a climax(enjoyment point) is reached. this is the part were the girl feels most pleasure or the part were the guy ejaculates. Masutrbation is when a guy plays with his penis until it becomes hard and then forms his hand to simulate a vagina and performs a verticle motion until he reaches the pleasure point. A girl masturbates by.... well ill let a girl explain that

Answer 6

Talk with a parent about those things. If you feel embarrassed then tell your parent you will be emailing him/her some questions that you find embarrassed to ask in person. Ask that he/she email the answers back.

Answer 7

I'm 40 and although I have done it many times and I still don't know how to answer those questions. That's half the fun.

Answer 8

i dont think you are 14 or you are older and need help asking this question if you are 14 then you should of gone thru sex ed am i correct and if you are a young women you know your parts it seems odd question to me look up ONLINE SEXEDUCATION

Answer 9

masterbation is when you 'play with yourself'. And sex at 14 is young.. I didn't until I was in my 20's.. you should talk to a parent or mentor about this

Answer 10

The guy takes his ding dong and puts it in her hoo-haw, and when he gets a warm feeling in his special place then he's done. Then the girl takes Mr. Righty (or Lefty) and goes exploring.