My best friend is a lezbo and she has a crush on me but I'm into men. What do I do?:?

Question

HELP!!

Answer 1

That doesn't even make sense.

Answer 2

Did you mean your best friend is a Lesbian? What's with the Lezbo stuff? Kind of cruel don't you think?

You can go to the bank with the fact that your best friend knows you are not gay. The fact that she has a crush on you is totally normal.. leave it be, it will pass.

Answer 3

First of all if she's your best friend why are you using the term lezbo, I'm sure thats is kind of offensive to them kind of "people"
Secondly how do you know shes crushin on you mabey your paronoined or subconciously crushing on her
So I think you should find out if she really does like you and if she does then do one of these.....
1.) That could be awsome for you, a friend with benifits
2.) Avoid her
3.)Help her find a new crush
4.) Break her heart and tell her you dont actually like her like that
I hope this helps you a little, Good Luck!!

Answer 4

Did she proclaim to be a lezbo recently or did you know she was already?? I would tell her how the cow chews the cabbage tell her "back off"!! Tell her it is wrong show her in Bible how Sodom and Gomorrah was destroyed because of this perversion. If she continues this crush-aka (demon lust). Show her the door!! If you keep her friendship you too will get this habit soon. Remember birds of a feather flock together. Everyone will refer to you as a lezbo too !!

Answer 5

Don't lead her on, but don't nurture her crush either. Try to ignore it but try to be more sympathetic then calling her a lezbo who has a crush on you. Wait for it to pass and try to subtly introduce her to another girl. Do not break her heart or make things hard for her. Do not go around telling people about her crush either. Let it pass.

Answer 6

First, watch your language. You said she's your friend, and it always seems like preceding a lable with "a" somehow enhances the otherization that occurs. Notice the difference in tone when I say, "My friend is black" vs. "My friend is a black" if you still can't tell the difference slap down 20 bucks and take a communication course at your local community college. Second, just let her know in no uncertain terms that you are not interested. If she persists, she clearly has no respect for your wishes. It seems like its that simple.

I have plenty of straight friends, and I don't even find the need to bring up my sexuality with them. They know, but its not really any of their business, and I know how they feel anyway. (No matter how cute they may be ;) )

P.S. That Sunshine chick a few answers up is out of her head. Don't cram a mythos written by uneducated barbarians 3500 years ago down her throat. If she's a lesbian, then that's how God made her.

Answer 7

Stop calling her a "lezbo" and get a life of your own.

Answer 8

Treat it the same way as if she were a guy friend who had a crush on you.
Tell her, gently but firmly and in a way that you guys can still be friends afterwards, that you are not into her.
If she is actually hitting on you, tell her, again, gently but firmly, that this is making you uncomfortable (which I am assuming it is), and that if you guys wanna stay friends she has to keep her feelings to herself. (We all have a right to have whatever feelings we have, but we have a responsibility to not express them to others inappropriately, i.e. when they're expressed in a pushy way).
This is the same thing I would do with a guy.

Answer 9

first of all, why do you refer to someone who you claim to be a friend with an insulting, derogatory term like "lezbo?"
second, if she is your friend, just tell her you're flattered, but you just want to be friends because you like guys.

Answer 10

you dont need help here nonne dont buy itt. if your into men stay that way hons. apparently you have made up your mind your feet are glued too the floor as far as men are conncerned in your life hons. stick too your guns hons if you love and want to stand bye your men hons. if the lezie pushes you tell her look- b-- back off now. let her have it hons.

Answer 11

Hey Alexa. It's Holly. We haven't been able to talk cuz I've been missing school cuz I'm sick but I think I'll be back tomorrow.
I know who you're talking about and I know what we should do.
We should so be supportive and everything because you and I, we are so not racist. We should be as supportive as we are going to be honest. We simply have to tell Ernesta that she's one of dearest friends and that's all she'll ever be. We respect her sexuality but we're not in the position to take advantage of it. Hope to see you at school tomorrow and don't forget that 6:40AM wake up call. Love as always, Holly :)