well me and this girl have been going out for a few weeks.she nvited me over to her apartment the other day and we made out and we did it. is this ok to do when you are in a realtionship for this short of time?
2007-02-01 12:57:45 · 19 answers · asked by Julie 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well, you were out for a few weeks. If you got to know eachother pretty well, then I think nothing's wrong. :)
2007-02-01 13:00:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's different for everyone, and it depends on your ethics.
From reading, I get the feeling you're pretty young, so being confused about "right" and "wrong" (and I use the terms loosely) is normal. Don't worry too much if it was the right thing to do; it's done - make sure you know what your next step is.
2007-02-01 21:01:43 · answer #2 · answered by trailangel 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't want to do anything like that until I'm married. I care about the other person too much to take her innocence. Oh, and did you say you are going out with a girl? Are you a girl as well?:(
2007-02-01 21:03:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's okay, it's a little rushed but it's not like there will be huge consequences. [As in no chances of pregnancy which is why I feel much better sleeping with girls rather than guys.] So you can slow it down from here if you want to.
2007-02-01 21:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all just hopw old are you or how old is she hons?? and do you both work togerther were did you meet?? does she really feel a need for you or is this just a one night fling?? are you attracted too her?? are you compatiable with each other hons?? are you going out on a second date with her?? in other words do you really realy want her in your life hons?? does she want too you againn?? think about how you want too go and what direction you want out of this from life hons. its your life and your decisionn. think hard fast if this is what you want.
2007-02-01 21:03:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? At least you waited a few weeks and didn't bump uglies on the very first date..
2007-02-01 21:02:25 · answer #6 · answered by Aunt Henny Penny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I`m gonna need more details before I make my judgement! Just kidding, hey babe if it felt good and didn`t hurt anyone I don`t see a problem!
2007-02-01 21:02:05 · answer #7 · answered by Scott T 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES but remember the world prefers don't ask don't tell your private life is yours reguardless what that private item is!
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2007-02-02 01:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by hard N 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What does your heart AND mind tell you?
2007-02-01 21:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋