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are you really hurt. Some men just don't have it in them. It doesn't mean they don't care and that they are not good men. Love him for himself, not by standards imposed by others

2007-02-01 12:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

That is an open ended question, there are a lot of factors to consider...you are not really giving me a lot to go on here but let me just ask a few questions.

Are you all having financial difficulties right now?
Have you guys alwasys given each other gifts?
Is everthing going okay in the relationship?

There has to be something to it and since he is your husband I'd say just sit down with him and ask him why he didn't get you a gift for christmas and if there is a problem you all can work on it and just let him know you were offened and hopefully next year you will get a gift.......Ever heard of Christmas in February......Or just ask if you all could celebrate Valentines Day/Christmas together to make up for whatever the reason was he didn't get you a gift.....
sorry I couldn't really help

2007-02-01 12:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pegi 3 · 0 0

Hey your not alone their. I haven't got a present from my husband in the 4 years we have been together and it hurts a little bit . Sorry i got a present or my birthday a birthday present I'll never forget that we were getting a divorce but no i have never got anything and it really hurts cause you feel like you are nothing to them but a cook cleaner and all the rest so i know how you feel you are not alone they think they are the only person on the earth

2007-02-01 22:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 1 0

Now that would depend on if you have children or is it just the 2 of you?? Myself I did not mind and neither did my husband we got for the children...We make it up to each other at different times..If you both do nice things for each other everyday or even once in a while you will feel very special with it..A gift doesn't have to be on special holidays it could be any day..Just something to think about..I do not mean to sound like I am saying anything in a hurt full way of any kind so Please do not feel that way...

2007-02-01 13:04:16 · answer #4 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0 0

Christmas isn't supposed to be about presents. Be glad you have a husband who loves you and a home and food on your table.

2007-02-01 13:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That is a serious issue. I even get my dog a christmas present.
Its not the gift just the thought. He didnt even get you a thought.
I would seriously consider my whole marriage. This is just the tip of a huge ice berg.

2007-02-01 13:06:23 · answer #6 · answered by Rick D 3 · 0 0

He sees you as an entitlement and weak and doesnt need to make an effort. Even a card would be something. He just does not care and does not feel that it is necessary to even make a token effort. Real men know how to do this. Husband? Hmmmm...

2007-02-01 13:01:45 · answer #7 · answered by jackson 7 · 0 0

hmmmm..... I guess it all depends on the situation. Did you get him something? Did he get you a car 3 years ago for Christmas and has 2 more years of car payments? Did he get his secretary something? Are you poor? Explain a little more.

2007-02-01 12:59:31 · answer #8 · answered by sdo3lg 4 · 0 0

Unless just couldn't for unseen reason, Understandable.
But if not just because- Well he would get an expectant present from me. And it wouldn't be the gift of life! (Kick his balls so high I would use them for earrings!! LOL :)
No fun in tented though, that's sad, so sad you should reevaluate your relationship with him
Sandra

2007-02-01 13:03:10 · answer #9 · answered by Bluelady... 7 · 0 0

Well I didn't get anything for Christmas either. I wasn't mad but remind hin of it everyday. The good thing about it is, we have a new house and I'm spending all of his money furnishing it and decorating it. :-)

2007-02-01 13:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by Phatbum!!! 2 · 0 0

Unless he had no money i would never buy him any kind of present or even a card on any occasion

2007-02-01 13:05:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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