My best friend is getting kind of mean to me and other people. Like if i have another friend over she calls me and shes really mad at me. I no its not a family thing cuz im really close to her family but im really sad cuz one of the reasons im her friend is because shes nice to me. And every guy likes her. She pretty much stole my bf. Shes one of those girls where you try to tell them that there mean but then they just get mad at you. And if i do something wrong she'll start telling everyone about it. I really like her when shes not mean but those times seam to be going away. what do i do????
2007-02-01 12:53:05 · 13 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well then shes not much of a good friend. if she gets mad welll to bad for her. its your choice you can do what you want but she doesnt seem like a true friend.
2007-02-01 13:00:54 · answer #1 · answered by introverted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When she does something to upset you, POINT IT OUT, calmly and casually. If you don't, she'll never know that she's affecting you. If you can't gather your courage enough to do this then there is a serious problem...it means you're pretty afraid of her, and that just can't happen in a friendship.
If she's a real friend she'll make an effort to stop what she's doing, or at least be a little more cautious. Plus, if she's a real friend, she'll know that what you're saying matters to you and won't take it in a bad way.
If you casually talk to her about how you feel and she just can't accept that, then it may be time to slowly walk away from your friendship and find somebody else who respects you. You have done nothing to deserve this and you are not limited to one friend.
2007-02-01 20:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friends don't steal bf's or get jealous of other friend's who visit you. You may want to rethink about continuing your relationship with this person. If this is how you're feeling, you should communicate this to her. If she continues to make you feel sad or uncomfortable, why continue the friendship? I'm sure there are other girls out there that can make you feel special. I have a best friend and she loves, cares, supports, understands and genuinely want the best for me. If you can't see this person do this for you, then she really isn't your best friend. Take some time to think about it. Good luck.
2007-02-01 21:10:42 · answer #3 · answered by bella 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound like a good person to have as a friend, I think in my case the stealing of the bf would've been the end of if...
Just lick your wounds, count your losses and move on, she's not worth it.
People reap what they sow..She'll be mean to the wrong person and it'll come back to bite her in the *** soon enough (maybe not today or tomorrow, but it will) and when it does, make sure you are there for the satisfaction of knowing "she got hers"
2007-02-01 20:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by m34tba11 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably already know this, but your bestfriend isnt even your friend if she does all that stuff to you. try standing up to her when shes mean. when your around her, act like shes lucky just to be AROUND you. do you let her talk about you, and be mean to you? if you do, then just say, "your being real RUDE right now," and give her a once over. good luck, you seem like a really nice person!
2007-02-01 21:01:41 · answer #5 · answered by bugsandtweety 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shes not your friend. a true friend wont take someone special away from you, no matter how much they like them. they'd take your feelings into consideration and try not to hurt you. im amazed that you still consider her as a friend after she took your boyfriend. arent you mad? and if talking to her just makes her attitude towards you worse, then just ditch her. shes not worth your time and i dont know why youve let her stick around.
2007-02-01 21:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by knight of cydonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might help if you just preid for her every night and let god do all the work it worked for me my best friend was having a lot of pier presure and stress so I just preyed for her like a good friend wood do it might work for you to .
2007-02-01 21:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by Zach Y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunni, she's not worth it. She may be "popular" and get all the boys, but if she's mean to you then she's not a real friend. If you told her she's being mean to you and she get's mad at you, she's really not worth it.
2007-02-01 20:56:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a friend to me. She sounds selfish and insecure. Life is too short to hang with people who treat you like that.
2007-02-01 21:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick her *** to the curb! she's not YOUR best friend u are hers. Shes not even your friend stealing boyfriends and all
2007-02-01 20:57:16 · answer #10 · answered by JAY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋