the problem i have been having lately is that people DONT TALK TO ME ANYMORE. they dont include me in their plans anymore! they dont take me into account anymore!...they dont think im alive anymore :s Any suggestions about what can i do?
2007-02-01 12:29:13 · 3 answers · asked by katy7angel 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If your friends have just been dogging (kinda means dissing or mistreating) you lately then however hard it is you need to learn you need to FORGET them. I mean it is better to build friendships with people with true friend potentiality then to be friends with a group of people who don't act like they like you (or
are good friends). Sometimes just like your favorite shirt a friend can be outgrown...
2007-02-01 12:38:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been through this time, well don't just start by making a list of people who don't talk to youand decide you will not talk to them either, first i think you should start by asking yourself and putting out your flaws for instance are you to bossy, always think your always right, etc. and believe me this may sound stupid and all but sometimes this the best solution, then talk to your main friends seperately, one at a time they may roll their eyes at you now but they will be sorry later, then if this doesn't work I guees the best way would be to talk to your parents, make new friends and understand them more, or notice the people who don't talk to you and see what they want from you and personally for the talking business i think you should talk to them while looking at them so you know what each is acting like, because emails and phone talk may help for some cases but face to face is better for these situations. I hope this really helps and remember its always better to have friends with many personalities but if it helps stick with the old rule ''one or two closer friends are better than a group of 4,5,6,7,etc. Also be yourself but change in places you really need to like how to be a really good friend you may already be but still check all of your life's pieces out just to be sure. Acting and planning to improve things now may help you in the future.
2007-02-01 12:58:09 · answer #2 · answered by island girl!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's said that the secret to having friends is being a friend--Not that i think you're not! The Golden Rule applies here. that said, maybe these are not the kind of friends you'd be happy with after all. Don't worry. Be considerate and be yourself, and the right kind of friend will come along. Meanwhile, this is a great opportunity to get to know yourself!
2007-02-01 12:46:37 · answer #3 · answered by Robin the Brave 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋