help! im really desperate, I dont want to loose her
2007-02-01 12:10:36 · 10 answers · asked by babigyrl2494 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It's alright to keep people's secrets unless that secret is causing someone to be hurt. Your friend's secret is causing hurt to her. Please tell someone you trust NOW. She needs help and she needs you to be a true friend and get it for her. She may be mad at you at first but if she truly gets help she'll come to love you for it.
2007-02-01 12:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by Critter 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay hunny i was in the same situation if u love her then u need to tell someone like her mom or a guidance counsler
i told the guidance counsler
she will be mad at u hunny but at least she wont be hurting herself anymore okay!
and if she does get mad then u tell her that knowning she was doing this to herself hurt u as much as if she were cutting u .
i kno u r afraid for her so be the best friend u can be by saying sumthing!
2007-02-01 20:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by leandrasmiles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get help right away maybe she'll be mad at u 4 that but she'll thank u! trust me. obviously u care about ur friend and don't want 2 see her hurt herself talk 2 ur parents or a counselor or her parents get help NOW PLZ I DONT'T wanna hear about anymore lost lives anywhere
2007-02-01 20:42:15 · answer #3 · answered by beautifulgirl♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do the right thing - tell someone NOW. Loosing her isn't the issue. She will thank you, she may not. She may be your friend, she may not after you tell someone. Oh well!!! Self-mutalation is dangerous and deadly.
2007-02-01 20:17:45 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call police and make a call as to what she is doing, they will take her to the hospital, and they will take it from there. Please so not feel guilty. I work in an ER and this happens all the time. Your friend is sick and needs some help don't delay.
2007-02-01 20:15:42 · answer #5 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is convince her that what she is doing is not good for her. remind her everyday and tell her that your worried about her and that you dont want to loose her. tell her that you reallly care about her and that you are her friend and u dont want her to ruin her life.
2007-02-01 20:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by introverted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
-tell someone quick!! if you dont want to loose that friend
-let your friend know that you are there for him/her and that you want to help them however you can.
-be patient... dont expect him/her to change immediatly
-do something special and unexpected for that friend!
-show her that there are people that appreciate and love her.
2007-02-01 20:28:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anita 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TELL SOME ONE - TELL THEM NOW AND NEVER DOUBT THAT YOU ARE DOING WHAT IS BEST FOR HER!!!
GO - GET OFF THE COMPUTER AND TELL SOMEONE - YOUR PARENTS, HERS, ANYONE THAT CAN HELP.
YOU DONT WANT TO HAVE TO SAY "WHAT IF?"
2007-02-01 20:14:50 · answer #8 · answered by litlbigdg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to a counselor, yur parents, her parents, a teacher, some adult
NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
get yur butt out of that chair rite this instant
2007-02-01 20:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
PLEASE TELL SOMEONE NOW. SHE MIGHT GET MAD AT YOU AT FIRST THEN SHE'LL NO WHAT YOU DID HELPED SAVE HER LIFE. sO GET UP FROM YOUR CHAIR AND GO TELL YOUR MOM OR DAD! PLEASE!
2007-02-01 20:23:27 · answer #10 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋