She says I roll my eyes at her a lot and I always roll my eyes. But she treats me mean all the time. It makes me mad. Do I stop hanging out with her?
2007-02-01 12:02:17 · 22 answers · asked by A Girl With a Dream 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
It really depends ...
try getting down and really talking to your friend ... so might find both of you are just mis communicating...
however, if in case you don't see her point ... don't fight with her or treat her rudely (as much as you'd like), instead hangout with her less ... just don't burn your bridges abruptly .... :)
2007-02-04 02:49:51 · answer #1 · answered by kakalarod 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you could make an attempt to curtail your body language if she tells you that you roll your eyes at her, because that is something that is never received as a positive thing! But, if she treats you mean all of the time, you have to stop allowing it..and unfortunately if she won't make an effort to change, you must part your ways. You should be hanging with people who "bring you up" not "drag you down."
2007-02-01 20:07:01 · answer #2 · answered by fried_twinkie1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how good of friends you are with her i guess. i would suggest talking to her and tell her it is pissing you off that she gets mad at u for no reason. explain to her u roll your eyes all the time not at her just in general. and if she is mean to u ask her what her deal is. if she doesnt change distance yourself from her.
2007-02-01 20:06:08 · answer #3 · answered by breezy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have a discussion with her in person and talk things through (maybe it could be a misunderstanding or maybe she's just insecure about herself and has to attack others to make herself feel better). you should say to her "look, i think that was way outta line wuht you said- i would really like you to stop saying mean things to me?" and remember always start with "i" not you (because it could seem like you are accusing her or something and she could get offensive and stuff). if that doesnt work tell her you guys should stop hanging out for awhile becaus eyou aren't confortable with the way sheacts towards you.
2007-02-01 20:08:54 · answer #4 · answered by SweetHoneySugarBaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her whats up? Does it bother her that you can't help that you roll your eyes alot ? If it does I guess the friendship is not a good friendship.
2007-02-01 20:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out the real reason why she is always mad at you then talk about it and if it is something that deals with her tell her your here for her and maybe the problem will be solved.
2007-02-01 20:06:26 · answer #6 · answered by leona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the two of you just don't get along (or you're in love...)...
Find someone who doesn't make you mad, or get mad at you all the time - personally, I think eye rollers are cute - some people hate it...
Just my .01
-dh
2007-02-01 20:05:42 · answer #7 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so. If she's not fun to hang around with anymore then stop it. It might be hard but the same thing happened to me earlier this year and I am alot more happy!
2007-02-01 20:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it something like a habit for you to roll your eyes. . . youo can talk to her and explain to her that you don't mean anyting regarding rolling your eyes but it is a habit whenever you're thinking about something then tell her that you're sorry if this upset her... if she really your friend then she will accept who you are...
2007-02-01 20:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by ahleks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends aren't mean to each other. My best-friend and I have been friends for 15 years and not once have we disrespected each other. that's who is supposed to be there for you when you get hurt not the one doing the hurting. Good luck
2007-02-01 20:10:11 · answer #10 · answered by secret 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋