I treid to go to counseling and after our secound sesion she decides she wants a devorce and it is because of her not anything i have done I love her so much i dont know what to do we have been seperated for a while but tried to get back toegther but she told me it dosent feel right what do i do now
2007-02-01 11:50:48 · 20 answers · asked by wolftv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
take ESL classes for starters
2007-02-01 12:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by puresatin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say, there is not a whole lot you can do. If she walked out, after the second session, then I don't think she's willing to work things out. Unless you two can discuss it, and are both willing to try again, then you'll have to give her the divorce. I'm sorry you're going through this! I hope everything works out for you! Good Luck!
2007-02-01 13:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry, but I don't think there is anything you can do. You have tried counseling and if she doesn't want it anymore then you can't force it. It is sad that this is happening to you, but you need someone who loves you unconditionally - let her go - you will find the right one. Good luck
2007-02-01 11:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant imagine going through what your going through right now but for whatever reason you are both seeking counseling to make things better but obviously she is done trying and ready to end it so as hard as it is let her go if its what will make her happy. If it ends at least you can say I tried to do whatever to make it work. I wish you luck.
2007-02-01 12:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by hotmoma1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mamabear is SO right...I found a FAR better man after my husband of 24 years divorced me. It turned out to be the best thing that ever happened to me....I am in a VERY happy place now!
2007-02-01 12:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can but do you wanna be one of those fathers? not saying you wont care for your child! but dont ever leave a woman while they need you!, that is whats wrong with the world nowadays! it might not work out between yall! but think about your childs life! what it has in head of them! dont teach it the wrong way to grow up like it seems your trying to do yourself! sorry if i sound rude! im just saying! Good luck! Brandon
2016-05-24 03:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go.You can't make anyone stay if there not happy.It will hurt and time will pass faster than you think.Don't fight with her about anything split everything 50/50 try to stay friends be there for her and hope she's there for you.I think saying goes If you love someone let them go if they come back it was meant to be if not then that was meant to be also.
2007-02-01 12:07:25 · answer #7 · answered by dreamweaver021557 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What you do now is grieve, move yourself to a new place, hang out with buddies who will sympathize and let you vent about it. Eventually you'll start dating again.
Sometimes, it's not anything you did - it just fades away.
My sympathies, darling. Live your life day by day and eventually it will all get easier.
2007-02-01 12:13:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Soon you will be glad she left, plenty of women out there! Just don't EVER get married again, marriage is the worst thing that can happen to a guy!
2007-02-01 12:31:31 · answer #9 · answered by Rob W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, did you always tried to love her the way she is, respect her be kind to her and not to hurt her as much ? I think from foundation something been missing ,to nourish the true love there.
2007-02-01 12:38:15 · answer #10 · answered by draagon13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept her decision and go on with your life. You might meet someone better in the future.
2007-02-01 11:54:30 · answer #11 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋