Ok, I have been really depressed lately. My hamster died, I got sick, i'm behind on school work (from sickness), and on top of all that, I lost a best friend. The thing is, there were 3 of us, all best friends. One of my friends and i always hang out, are more alike, and are better friends. We started not to like my other friend because she is changing into a different person, just to be in the popular group. She is also a cheerleader (bleh) and tried to get me to be one. My other friend didn't like that at all. So, we all argued a lot and i told my "friend" that if she was going to dump us as friends, we weren't going to be there for her when her "popular" friends dumped her because we are going to come back up as indpendent people, without her. (my other friend used more, harsh language to express her feelings.) i feel terrible because i lost a best friend, but i feel kind of good also. Should i be felling this way?
2007-02-01 11:29:48 · 11 answers · asked by Lex 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-02-01 14:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by megs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well obviously your still in high school and things like this happens to kids like us! I'm not in high school no more but when I was I too lost some of my friends and I think that you shouldn't get mad at the other for becoming a cheerleader, When you get into a new school enviroment you tend to see things and do other things that interest you. I think that you should just be acquitances and as for the other friend I dont think bringing harsh words into a about to end frienship was nessesary. I think you should be the bigger person and still be there for her even when she loses her "popular friends." Be mature and make careful descions when it comes to losing friends. And as for the snotty cheerleader that left you the f*&ked up comment, as far as I'm concerned I think your the one that needs a life and that needs to be a nice kid because being that your always happy you should rub off your niceness on other, you snotty b*t*h
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2007-02-01 11:53:59 · answer #2 · answered by natali3x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's changed and you don't like what she became it's good what you did. I know you feel terrible and I know how it is when that happens but just remember that your true friends are the ones that don't dump you just to be popular. I hope you'll feel better about the situation later.
2007-02-01 11:35:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. did the same thing recently. but i gotta tell you right now, im a cheerleader. but im a cheerleader that knows what shes talking about. your friend is just changing and trying to figure out who she is. if you are a teen, or in school, you might not know who you are and what you want to be and you want to try to figure out who you are. if your friend is being a little ***** then you might want to just give her some time. if you feel like you really did the wrong thing, talk to her now, but do NOT do it over the phone, and do NOT do it over text, just do it face-to-face.
2007-02-01 11:57:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change. Instead of being harsh to her about it you might have just said to her that you hope she is happy with new friends. I know it hurts but it happens to just about everyone. Havent you ever had friends in the past that you outgrew and left behind? They might have been hurt too.
2007-02-01 11:35:25 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shud be feeling this way. recently i stop-ped being friends with a really good friend beacuse she has become a brat and a fake. i felt kinda happy when i stoppped being her friend because i knew that she was gonna get what was coming to her. meaning, that since she was a brat, sooner or later, something bad would happen to her. what goes around comes around.
2007-02-01 11:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by Kate 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you did the right thing! Dont feel bad its normal to feel that way. Your friend deserved that for trying to get you to be something your not and she was going to abandon you guys anyways.
2007-02-01 11:39:57 · answer #7 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im glad you're such a horrible person, i was in a situation like yours but i was the one that became the cheerleader and i am very glad that my friends are nothing like you and your bff yeah so you seem pretty selfish and jealous and im pretty sure that you need to get a life, maybe she'd still be you friend if you werent such a you know what!
2007-02-01 11:42:22 · answer #8 · answered by encantame. 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well no ones to say but if she was really yourbest friend then you would be there no matter what happens. if you feel good then you really didnt care about her.
2007-02-01 12:08:00 · answer #9 · answered by introverted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who's to say that your only friend now wont dump you as a friend too
2007-02-01 11:35:20 · answer #10 · answered by snowman_80 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋