My wife stopped shaving her legs?
If I say something,
She'll probably get mad.
2007-02-01 11:22:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I was married for 20 yrs...( was ) lol...
thru it all...I always wanted to look my best...& have smooth, silky, tan legs for my spouse was important every day...
am I wierd...?
2007-02-02 01:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you can say something. She probably just doesn't think it's that big of a deal and that you don't care. I haven't shaved anything in months! Mind you, I'm not very hairy and my body hair grows slow and when I do shave it takes like 2 weeks for me to need to shave again and even still it's not that much I have very fine hairs, but seriously, just talk to your wife.
2007-02-01 11:42:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she's got her catch! The "impressing him" stage is over. This is not unusual. Men do the same thing. People tend to get comfortable with each other. I'm sure she feels like you love her and it's not necessary for her to shave her legs often.
An idea you could try is bathing with her. You could let her shave you...where ever that may be, and you could shave her.
2007-02-01 11:31:21 · answer #3 · answered by Pom♥Mom Spay and Neuter 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
for god's sake don't let her know you asked about it on the internet! be very careful with this one. you have to put it delicately - not like you are complaining. tell her you find her sexiest when she's just out of the shower and smells all flowery and clean and that you love the way her legs feel when you're cuddling and they're all smooth and silky and wrapped around you. a huge turn on- you get the idea. good luck! also if it doesn't work is it really the worst thing ever? pick your battles. you didn't marry her for her legs.
2007-02-01 11:42:07 · answer #4 · answered by carrie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is ridiculous, if you can't talk to her about her leg hair, how on earth will the two of you discuss important issues that will pop up during your marriage? Just let her know that you would like it if she shaved her legs more often, you don't have to be rude about it. If you don't have the ability to be honest with your wife, your marriage is in trouble.
2007-02-01 11:56:13 · answer #5 · answered by QT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she won't get mad at you if you tell her you are attracted to shaved legs. at the same time don't expect them to always be shaved. she has other things to do I'm sure.
lots of things change from when you are trying to court someone to when you have them. that's life. I'm sure you will change as well. change is good. you both just have to learn to except each others changes.
2007-02-01 11:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by showstopper18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know, maybe she is tired and stressed out from planning the wedding and the wedding itself. I don't know, do you shave your face every day? My fiance does not, and therefore he has no right to expect me to shave my legs each day. And it helps that our hair grows really slow!
2007-02-01 13:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's winter-- a lot of us girls don't shave this time of year. After all, bundled under tights and pants who is going to know??? If it's really bothering you, send her for a leg wax as a "spa treat."
BTW, do you shave your face EVERY day? I know my husband doesn't and a stubbly cheek isn't so great, either.
2007-02-01 11:30:33 · answer #8 · answered by Angela B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her why she has stopped shaving her legs. if she gets mad at you for asking, just say you were wondering and you prefer he legs clean shaven is all. But they are her legs.
2007-02-01 11:34:46 · answer #9 · answered by Pandora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was shaving her legs DURING the wedding? Eww.
2007-02-01 11:45:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your wife is just comfortable with you now.this is to be expected. next will be the way she dresses if she hasnt already changed that.the longer you are married the more your wife will be her self. if it bothers you that bad tell her how much you love her smooth legs and how much they turn you on.remember you will get more bees with honey.
2007-02-01 11:31:47 · answer #11 · answered by whiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋