I met a great guy a couple weeks ago. Since then, we have been insepeperable. I swear, I can't even sleep anymore because I can't sleep without him there. So we stay on the phone until 5 am. I don't have the nervous, jittery feeling I normally have around a crush. It's pure comfort, and acceptance. I'm 29, and have been around the block, and this feeling is new to me. I feel like I'm in love, but is this a crazy idea? I mean, I can already imagine a future with him (and I'm commitment-phobic!). He just makes me feel perfect.
2007-02-01 11:09:01 · 19 answers · asked by happy c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's possible. But then again you two could just be really on the same vibe sexually...lust makes you do crazy things. You think you could be in love with him, OK. Just take it slow. Don't do anything drastic.
I have learned from past experience that sometimes guys try to spend every second of everyday with you to try to get you to have a false sense of closeness. That makes you open to doing things that leave you vulnerable. Thinks like "lending" money, "lending" your car...etc. Just be careful. Hope things work out for you!
2007-02-01 11:29:15 · answer #1 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well been there done that i do believe that it is possible for only a short time. i know we all come in a life time where we meet some one special even for just a very short time but if the feeling is real why question your heart? there is a saying " LOVE AT FIRST SIGHT" it is possible what you are feeling right now around that special person. besides LOVE has no boundaries love has no limits to the time frame all love knows is that the two of u must be together although you are scared and worried that he or she might not be the one but all i can say to that is trust your love for that person and trust that feelings you have with that person. if the connection is right then every thing is OK. one thing i know if you can feel what the other half is feeling towards you then it is love. so it is not possible it is for sure that what your feeling is normal.
2007-02-01 11:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you made a very wrong choice as far as choosing a soul mate. Now you have to face the consequences like a man, learn from the experience and move on. You are in a one way relationship. Marriage is supposed to be a partner in dreams, ideas, goals and most important, someone who listens, cares and acknowledges you outside the bed. Why then marry? You (and her) can have all the sex with whomever without being married to them. The only thing that seems she is interested in is either financial reason or sexual reason, or both. That is a very poor foundation to build a life together. You sound like a smart man, we all make mistakes, but we must learn from them and that is what is important. Find yourself a woman that loves you and cares for every issue in your life, whether you are reading a vampire story or trying to re-invent the wheel, there is where the proof of true love lies. Good luck
2016-03-29 00:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very possible to fell in love in 2 weeks.
I had a similiar story i had with my first love, a person you feel comfort, a person who understand you, a person that understand your soul.... happened in 3 intensive days for me
and we continued it for some months, but we didint end up together as in marriage. he is still i think my soul mate untill this very day. even if we dont see eachother and have nothing to do with eachother live, he is there part of my heart in a plutonic way.
that untill i met my "true love" i am married to him now. Tht also take me about 2 weeks of meeting up and we went travelling around Java Indonesia togehter...
we are never been apart since. its now 5 years...
I think what you are feeling are real, put the jitters aside and comfort kicks in that is sure sign you wanted a serious relationship.
why not commit? dont watch too much tv, commitments arent what its like on tv.
when you find the right person, you do it without even knowing that you are doing it. its a very natural process and feeling especially if you met the right person to do it with...
good luck!
2007-02-01 11:49:09 · answer #4 · answered by Beautiful_Oddities 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's absolutely possible in my opinion. Then again, I am the product of a couple who were married for over 50 years (until my Dad's death late last summer). My Mom spotted my Dad across a crowded room and, without knowing so much as his name, told her sister "that's the man I'm going to marry". (They didn't rush into the marriage but rather had about a three year courtship.)
Is this feeling "real"? Probably so. However, that doesn't mean there's any rush to DO anything about this feeling. Ease into it. Enjoy and savor everything...but try to also keep your head functioning at least as much as your heart seems to be functioning. Meaning, while you care deeply for this person, be "smart" about it.
No rush. Enjoy this feeling.
Good luck!
2007-02-01 11:18:50 · answer #5 · answered by zoni_tonya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I fell in love with my wife after two weeks. We got married two months later and have been married for 25 years.
I had been around the block as you have and had the same weird feelings. I just went for it and did not turn back.
I have proof that the answer is yes but I am sure that others will have stories in oposition.
In the end, you have to decide for yourself.
It is great to hear that someone makes you feel perfect. That is really hard to find.
2007-02-01 11:18:17 · answer #6 · answered by L&C 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well aparently if u cant sleep with out him your obviously in love u may not know it but u are.Sure if u want to go out with him take the opertunity it sounds like u two have alot in common so go for it.Dont be scared just don't rush things take it slow and know more of him u never discovered.GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-02-01 11:15:24 · answer #7 · answered by stacy_diva_girl619 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lust. Love is not an emotion, it's a choice. You're in the lust mode and will be for the next year. How about you don't get married for at least three more years, it will jus tend in divorce. It's crazy, correct.
2007-02-01 11:13:51 · answer #8 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been with my one day to be hubby for 5 years and almost 1 month from the very first day we met :)
2007-02-01 11:24:21 · answer #9 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called infatuation. It could develop into love but don't rush anything and get all overbearing and jealous. Give it time to grow. What's the hurry?
2007-02-01 11:39:45 · answer #10 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋