People (especially girls) in real life I mean. I'm shy and I stammer when I'm nervous so they think I'm dumb. But I'm not. I get good grades but girls don't know this. How do I let them know without coming across as pompous? I don't want to show off, I just want to show people I'm not as dumb as they think I am.
2007-02-01 11:07:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
just be yourself, join in the conversations & talk about what you know. they will understand soon enough
2007-02-01 11:10:00 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
D, you just gotta be confident... Stuff like good grades will help u build ur self esteem. Also focus on your good points and fake self confidence till u make it. You could join ur school's sports team. It does help build confidence
Trust me even with high grades girls may not find u appealin...it takes time to build confidence,
You get urself out there and u'll stop being shy with time...
2007-02-01 19:21:29 · answer #2 · answered by Millie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with just being yourself. Feel more confident in being you!!! Just ease into a conversation and don't worry about being the center of it. The girls that notice you will be the kind girls you WANT to meet.
2007-02-01 19:12:03 · answer #3 · answered by Tracy S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its just stammering join groups where you have to learn to speak comfortably. If its stuttering talk to your doctor about cures and treatments or support groups.
2007-02-01 19:14:20 · answer #4 · answered by zeroartmac 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it...you'll find someone who likes you for you, without having to become something your not and if they can't see how smart you are just by being around you, then they are not worth you time.
2007-02-01 19:12:52 · answer #5 · answered by artgirl11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm i dont know what pompous means but be proud of your good grades tell whoever u want however u want if they dont like it there probably jealous of it trust me
2007-02-01 19:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by Short 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
accidently drop your report card in front of a girl you are talking to then by that the news will travel fast, real fast...
2007-02-01 19:13:12 · answer #7 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't have to chnage urself or do something to get noticed.....someone someday will come in ur life u'll love as u are. Don't worry
2007-02-01 19:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Chocogal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answer questions in class. Try to not be so nervous.
2007-02-03 18:26:31 · answer #9 · answered by Jeremy© ® ™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and your dreams will come true.
2007-02-01 19:11:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋