you know when you have sex for the first time...well does it really hurt?
2007-02-01 11:00:39 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
no, the first time i had sex it didnt hurt at all, i had just a very little amount of blood and that was it. but i was pretty worked up at the time and really really really wanted it so i think that helps...every person is different and can depend on a lot of things....i had used tampons since i was 13 and i was 21 when i has sex for the first time so i think my hymen was gone by then so that is some of why it didnt hurt...but just take it slow and easy and make sure it is with someone you love, that makes it better and a whole lot easier....
2007-02-01 14:56:36 · answer #1 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the female yes it does! Also there's a bit of blood. It takes a long time before a female will actually enjoy herself with sex. It hurts the first several times you do it.
My advise, just wait as long as you can. It's not worth it. Sex is great when you're married, but is really so over rated.
2007-02-01 11:20:43 · answer #2 · answered by bluegrass 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For the girl, it can. It depends on the guy she is having sex with. A couple different factors.. How endowed he is, whether or not he's gentle. If you have never had sex, then it may be tight, and the guy needs to go slowly.
Some guys only care about themselfs, and will shove it in, and it can be exremely painful.
If you have trouble getting it in, try some lubricant.
2007-02-01 11:05:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jada C 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It actually depends on each woman. I would say it hurts a lot the very first time, but the next ones are pretty good!
2007-02-01 11:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i hurt after the first time i had sex
2007-02-01 11:34:19 · answer #5 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, not if you're relaxed and use lots of foreplay and lubrication. Just be safe! If you're considering becoming sexually active, I suggest you get to your local sexual health clinic and pick up some condoms and talk to a doctor about getting on some form of hormonal birth control as a back up plan. If you ask your doctor not to tell, your parents will not be notified. I know that at Planned Parenthood they even call your house pretending to be a friend if need be. Good luck!
2007-02-01 11:05:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
it does for a lot of people, if the hymen is still in tact (sometimes it can break before virginity is lost from other activities), then that is usually what causes pain and bleeding, either way it will most likely be very uncomfortable. dont expect it to feel good the first few times
2007-02-01 11:04:59 · answer #7 · answered by theburlaces 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have heard that it does hurt from pretty much every women that I have spoken to about it. If you are worried about it, than don't do it. There will be plenty of time for that kind of stuff. Sex can also complicate things greatly. Hope you make the right decision Sarah. Good luck.
2007-02-01 11:05:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
ok it doesnt hurt bad enough to make u want to stop, and i would exaclty call it "hurt", just a different feeling... the first couple times will probably be a lil uncomfortable (thats the word that i was ooking for) but after that its worth every second...
2007-02-03 11:14:25 · answer #9 · answered by Ash 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is not painful it's A great thing, but it's even greater
if you're with the person you love.
2007-02-01 14:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by koko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋