What do you do about backstabbers???

Question

this is kind of a long story. u see i liked this boy (not anymore) about 2 years ago but then he moved to a different city. we started talking on aim and then i told one of my friends how it was great that we might actually start getting serious about this whole thing. and now they are best frinds on myspace and they flirt all the time and its so obvious that he likes her and she likes him back. whenever we see eachother she acts like nothing happened. i dont like him anymore at all i avoid him. but what should i do about my friend?

Answer 1

Prov 17:9 He who covers over an offense promotes love,
but whoever repeats the matter separates close friends.

Prov 19:11 A man's wisdom gives him patience;
it is to his glory to overlook an offense.

However there is this also:

Prov 13:20 He who walks with the wise grows wise, but a companion of fools suffers harm.

Prov 22:3 A prudent man sees danger and takes refuge, but the simple keep going and suffer for it.

And These too:


Prov 17:17 A friend loves at all times

1st Corinthians 13:4-13 Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Answer 2

Are you going to allow your friends to get every guy you fall for? If you want something you want go get it BEFORE someone else does. It's a doggy dog world babygirl and you need to either get in there or stay out of the game.

You used the word "might" actually get serious... There was nothing concrete and your girlfriend went for the kill right in front of you... That little...I'd get an account on MY SPACE and start flirting with him. Did he know about getting serious with you because it sounds like maybe he didn't. Now if he did then drop both of them like flies. What comes around goes around!

Then, myspace them both and tell them that you feel betrayed and you need loyal friends, not them in your life. Good luck my dear!

Answer 3

i had the same thing happen to me,but not on myspace.i liked a guy and my friends said we would be the perfect couple and i was like ok whatever, but then my friend said that she thought he was cute and my heart cracked. i don't like him now but what i did was talked to my friend. she said that she was sorry and the only reason she said that was because she kind of did like him but now that she knows how i feel that she would lay off. But, with your friend i would just forget about it. if you dont like him than let your friend have him, especially since your over him. It sounds like you still have a section of your heart devoted to him. Your over him. Your friend likes him,YOUR OVER HIM! GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE!

Answer 4

Stab em back

Answer 5

tell her how you feel. Let her know that she is out of place.....and make her see it from your point of view!

Answer 6

be the bigger or better person try to stop talking to her...... if u want...... or you could confront her in a nice or rude way.. totally up tp you....