I just wondered.. My wife and I have shared many things and tried many things and to tell you the truth we miss some of the things we used to do but dont do them anymore..Does most people do kinky things the longer they have been together or do they just do the same old things.. ?Anybody have any ideas for something new and exciting.?
2007-02-01 10:35:29 · 5 answers · asked by Im C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Someone has to start.
Try doing something that the two of you used to enjoy and she will probably respond.
2007-02-01 10:40:23 · answer #1 · answered by knightofsappho 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keeping a marriage fresh might be a labor of love but it is still labor. If you don't work at it a marriage can fall into a runt that is very difficult to climb out of once you've fallen into it. You want to keep things exciting and that is a very good sign.
I don't know what it is that you used to do that you've drifted away from so it's difficult to suggest anything specific. If a couple was once into BDSM suggesting that they get a vibrator doesn't make much sense. On the other hand if their idea of bold and exciting was leaving a light on then then you probably don't want to suggest that they bring in the circus dwarfs and anal beads.
Just try to get back to where you used to be and figure out how it was that you lost it. Role play with each other. Take a shower together. Get the kids to spend the night at a friend's house to that you don't have to be worried about being too loud or being interrupted. If that's too tame for you then call in the dwarfs but don't give up on reclaiming what you used to have.
2007-02-02 23:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by Barb S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Variety is the spice of life." There's nothing wrong with getting kinky to shake things up.
2007-02-01 18:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by behrmark 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with tryng new things. It is only as exciting as you make it. Surf the net for new ideas
2007-02-01 22:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats the fun in doing the same old things?
be kinky and crazy, and discover yor fetishes.
2007-02-01 18:40:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋