i'm a virgin but still curious so many girls have sex but why would you if it hurts so much? do girls do it just to hace kids or plz the guy?
2007-02-01 10:35:07 · 6 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
and u heard it's possible to be too small for intercourse is tht true?
2007-02-01 10:35:38 · update #1
My first time did not really hurt. On a scale of 1-10 (10 being unbearable), I'd give it a 2. It felt like a little pinch and that was about it. I did not bleed...some people do, some don't. It's not a lot if you do. Think of it this way....there are over 6 billion people in this world and most of those were conceived through sex....others through artificial means of course. If sex were really that bad, the world would not be that populated.....so losing one's virginity isn't really that bad.
2007-02-01 11:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen please,I know right know that this would not be the popular answer,But I have to at least try.I am a married man and I can tell you from experience.I would give my right arm to do it all over again.Yes I had some good experiences sexually,But also some very hurtful ones as well.When People have sex before marriage,It takes away from the intimacy of the relationship.You start to compare past lovers and situations that you have faced.But when you go into the marriage innocently,you have no idea what it is good or bad because you have nothing to compare it to.No one now a days puts enough importance on saving ones self for marriage,Its so sad.No man or woman is worth you giving yourself too before marriage.You also mentioned that maybe you were to small for intercourse,I maybe wrong but to me that sounds like you are still young,If that's the case,please consider another route.There is so much in life to look forward too than to be harboring those feelings of sexual frustration.I hope more young people would one day wake up and focus on education and other academic abilities,Rather than searching for someone to lose their virginity too.Young people are our future and the way it seems to be going now,Our future looks dim..................I didn't want to sound to condemning I am just so concerned it hurts my heart...........Grace and Peace
2007-02-01 19:33:52 · answer #2 · answered by bummed by the system 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i may not be a doctor but i can tell you this, sex for the first time doesnt hurt as badly as you might be expecting it to be, and after that, sex doesn't hurt at all. and no, a female can not be too tight, you'll stretch... don't worry. and you won't bleed alot either. I hope that i was atleast somewhat helpful for you.
2007-02-01 19:03:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...the first time i had sex it hurted so badd . it only hurted for a couple of minutes though and than after that it didn`t really hurt at all .
2007-02-01 19:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by Maya.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is different, but as for myself, I bled slightly and it hurt alot.
2007-02-03 23:47:49 · answer #5 · answered by riss criss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hahaha
2007-02-01 18:51:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋