Nobody likes me and i dont know why
2007-02-01 09:59:19 · 23 answers · asked by Jason M 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Be friendly, in a healthy way. The rest falls into place.
2007-02-01 10:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be yourself. Don't try too hard as people will see right through you. Just smile and say hello to them. Go out and volunteer your time at local places like a hospital or a library. You will meet different people and make new friends. Start a conversation with someone you don't know in line at a grocery store. Be friendly, but not overly friendly. You will make friends easily. Some people are just not friendly and don't like others because they are jealous for some reason. Invite some people over for a light dinner party at your house. Start a card game on a specified game night. Don't change who you are, just open up and let people get to know you. Hugs to you.
2007-02-01 18:04:50 · answer #2 · answered by Stephanie F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to get this a lot.
But they way you carry yourself really helps. You need to be confident in yourself. Get involved in extra things, and you'll find yourself meeting people that will like you left and right.
2007-02-01 18:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Muffy & 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. You're sure to bump into SOMEONE who likes you. Maybe the other people think you don't like them? I'm not 100% sure how to help, but just try to socialize a bit more?
2007-02-01 18:03:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say without knowing more about you. I would say, just be yourself, and try to stay in the background for a while, and just listen. Good luck hon,.I believe you're a good person ~~~
2007-02-01 18:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself... if people dont like who you are... dont try to conform to who they want you to be. you will find someone soon who likes you for who you are... and as long as you are nice and are being the person you want to be... then why worry what other people think? Keep your chin up and just show everyone that you are you... not someone elses creation :D
2007-02-01 18:04:09 · answer #6 · answered by fidowido99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care? Who cares what people think, say, or do. You need to like yourself first. Don't be like Clay Aiken! He's a great example of somebody who is not very happy with himself and who is ashamed of who he is and that he is afraid to admit he's Gay? I pity that poor, weak bastard. So do most. And, pity is not positive. You want to be like Clay Aiken?
Love yourself, and follow your own tune.
2007-02-01 18:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be nice and personable. People will like you if you are easier to be around! And Bathe, make sure you smell good too thats always a plus! I always try to be positive even when a negative situation comes up! Good luck!
2007-02-01 18:02:17 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Like, first, you have to like yourself first. You don't need to, like, have people like you. but it would be, like, nice! People get a "feel" of who's likeable and, like, those who "tend to be holding up the walls." I'm, like, sure you're a likeable person, but some people are so self-centered or, like, have their own circle of friends. Low self-esteem is very visible, my friend. Work on it and, like, the rest will follow.
2007-02-01 18:05:55 · answer #9 · answered by Bob Maynard 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to be comfortable with yourself first and like yourself first before anybody else will. Be confident in who you are and it will draw in the type of friends you want.
2007-02-01 18:42:08 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋