has anyone here ever been to a swingers club? is it fun for both people?

Question

do woman think about this type of extreme sexual adventure with the company of others. i'm talking to those who actually enjoy their sex life

Answer 1

Yes and yes. Although the common perception is that men coerce their wife into swinging, nothing can be further from the truth for those that do it successfully. In fact yes, the majority of the time the husband is the first to mention it (70% of the time actually), but then it is the woman that really takes the ball and runs with it. And opposite to common belief, women get more positive benefits from the swinger lifestyle then men. Most women in the lifestyle will tell you that it builds their confidence in being sexy and really liberates them sexually, eliminating the guilt they grew-up being spoon fed by society about being a sexual woman. Women really have more control in the swinger lifestyle then men.

In fact, it's been said a man may convince his wife to go to a swingers club, but then he has to convince her to leave. ;-)

For more real, objective, and educated information, check-out The Swingers Board http://www.swingersboard.com . Most of what you'll get here is uninformed opinions. And I've found that those who have the most opinions usually have the least amount of facts to back them up. They're all based on personal insecurities, fears, and biases.

Answer 2

I went to one once. I was with a single lady that was into the life style. We spent two nights there. I meet a few people and didn’t have sex with any of the other women. I would like to go again but now I’m married and my wife isn’t cool with the thought. I did talk to a few in that life style and for a couple to meet another couple that are compatible is difficult. Usually the guy is attracted to a woman but his woman isn’t attracted to her man. So there you go! In reading some of the answers I see other swingers have answered. If you would like to be watched or watch others having sex that is pretty easy to do. Just going to a swingers club isn’t much different then going to any other club. Only difference is most are married and willing to have sex with or without their spouse and the spouse knows that. I also found that most women that swing are bisexual. They let the husbands have sex with their girl friends. Not a bad thing! I enjoyed watching the women. I did meet one that I think if I had asked she would have had sex with me. That was the second night and she was there the first night but we didn’t meet until the next morning. She was bi and I don’t know if she was marred. The lady I was with was straight. Not that it matters but we were both straight. I don’t think gay men are into swinging. If you are bisexual you are more likely to like the life style. A lot of straight couples that are into swinging have a few friends that they swing with. They are usually friends in and out of the bedroom. You can go into swingers’ life style and set up a free profile. They have a chat room and there you can ask anything you would like to know. I would say everyone should go at least once. Not necessarily to have sex with someone else, to see if it is something you might like to try.

Answer 3

Most swingers clubs are private and require membership. Essentially they want to weed out the weirdo's. Most of the one's I have been to (2) required that only couples apply, strictly no single woman or men. My partner and I were not married at the time but once she and I broke up, they booted both of us off the membership list.

Answer 4

some issues confirm you recognize before: a million. If the two considered one of you (you or your boyfriend) has any propensity for jealousy, do not even walk interior the door. it fairly is a recipe for disaster. 2. If all people methods or talks to you, it skill they desire to have intercourse. This additionally means that in case you attitude or refer to somebody, that's the sign you're sending to them. So, in case you have worry asserting no, it is advisable to adhere alongside with your date. 3 the final public of the individuals would be what many might evaluate unattractive (interior the renowned, classic, BS experience of the be conscious) and center-elderly. 4. in case you're youthful than 35 and intensely alluring, be arranged to be swarmed. 5. in case you do work together in something actual with human beings you do not understand, you're continually welcome to call it off. 6. carry CONDOMS

Answer 5

I am a married woman. I do enjoy my sex life, although it could be better. I think swingers clubs are crazy, sick and evil. My parents went to one, my mother changed her mind but dad wouldn't back out like he promised he would. My family was broken and dysfunctional, because of my dad's sick fascination with sex. I can only see pain and hurt coming from this kind of adventure. Best wishes.

Answer 6

yes they do but you may find tou that your more jealous than you thought i tried one once with an ex and it was great enjoying myself but i always wondered if se was enjoying it more you know i mean women always wonder if there as good as the mans last, but that's irrevelent a hole is a hole really it's just what the dround looks lie around the hole you know? but with differant dudes it's a bit more of an extreme i mean would you really want your gf to be pounded by some 300lbs big |)ick bastard? i think thats what really put me off i mean if the dudes where good looking like me it probably would have been an issue but to see some of these people was just sicking so yea i got mine in and tried to put it behind me i really think the better way to go is with some freinds like get a couple of couples you know together and make your own that way you gte to be selective and can regulate other wise who knows where thats been as your mother used to say

Answer 7

I went to a swingers club once where all the men threw their car keys into a basket and some bastard stole my boyfriends car!!!!!!!

Answer 8

It's for losers and people who carry STD's.

Answer 9

been there, was fun, I think it's more fun for the guy...they tend to be more visual...