Masturbation hurts?

Question

I am uncircumcised, and when masturbating with foreskin pulled back it hurts quite a lot if i touch the glans. No problem to do it when it is pulled up though. So my question is is this normal? I heard in sex ed. that you gotta pull back the foreskin when putting on a condom, and i worry this will hurt for the same reason as above. Also, i dunno about the mechanics when u have sex, but i worry that it will hurt too for the same reason.

Should i get circumcised to solve this problem?

its not about lack of lubrication, its about applied pressure

Answer 1

is the foreskin able to glide over the glans easily when you have an erection?...when you pull the foreskin back, can you see the ring around the glans completely, or could it be covered by some scar tissue...
if you have any scar tissue, that may have to be snipped (not a circumcision) in order to facilitate the foreskin to glide easily back and forth...
i am not really sure about the pain...most boys have more sensitive glans because of the foreskin not allowing the glans to rub on the underwear and generating a small amount of callous-like tissue, but that should not generate pain in the galns when it is pulled back...
and yes, you do have to pull the foreskin back before applying a condom so that the glans is visible...remember to unroll the condom completely as well...use a non-petroleum based lubricant (like KY jelly) and do not use condoms that you have stored in your wallet of the glove box of your car...also check the condom expiration date to make sure that they are not expired
good luck

Answer 2

The glans of an uncircumcised penis is far more sensitive... too much stimulation can have a negative effect. The glans of a circumcised penis is "exposed" and has developed a "thicker skin". You need to learn how to make it feel good without hurting... try it with a condom.

Answer 3

Just be damn glad that your parents didn't have your penis butchered. They left you whole and intact with all your nerves and feelings. Sex will be so much better for you with all the feeling you were meant to have.

As you handle your tool it will gradually get over it's extreme sensitivity, but it won't become half numb and dried out like a cut guy.

Here is a study that shows that men contimplating circumcision should be warned of possible loss of sensitivity before they can give informed consent for surgery.

http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/entrez/query...

Exerpts from the report:

Masood S, Patel HR, Himpson RC, Palmer JH, Mufti GR, Sheriff MK.

OBJECTIVES: Currently no consensus exists about the role of the foreskin or the effect circumcision has on penile sensitivity and overall sexual satisfaction. Our study assesses the effect of circumcision on sexually active men and the relative impact this may have on informed consent prior to surgery.

Penile sensation improved after circumcision in 38% (p = 0.01) but got worse in 18%, with the remainder having no change. Overall satisfaction was 61%.

CONCLUSIONS: Penile sensitivity had variable outcomes after circumcision. The poor outcome of circumcision considered by overall satisfaction rates suggests that when we circumcise men, these outcome data should be discussed during the informed consent process. 2005 S. Karger AG, Basel

One out of five men circumcised suffers loss of sensitivity and one out of three is not satisfied with the results, these are not very good odds. This damage is also likely when babies are circumcised but the problems will not be apparent for many years.

I would point out that while this study shows that adult men should be warned of the possibility of sensitivity loss before they can give "informed consent" to circumcision, there is no way that a newborn boy can give his informed consent to an elective procedure that has a greater than 1 in 5 chance of leaving him with an impaired sex-life.

His body. His choice.

Answer 4

Yes this is normal. The more you work with it, the better it gets, so that it will be sensitive but not too sensitive.
No, you shouldn't get circumcised to solve the problem. It is not really a problem, but part of growing up. Circumcising will take a bunch of sensitivity away to the point that very little will be left when you get older. Be proud that you were not chopped.

Answer 5

Getting circumcised is a very big decision. I would try some foreskin stretching exercises first. Find some on a legit website like WebMD or something. These exercises should loosen things up a bit down there. You might also want to consider using a penis health creme too. This creme will protect your skin during the stretching and will also help kill bacteria that may be contributing to the foreskin tightness. Hope this helps and good luck.

Answer 6

im sorry but my husband is uncircumcised also and it does sometimes hurt while having sex. so much that hes considering becoming circumcised now even though it will be quite painful. Good luck

Answer 7

hi i am having the pain in my left testicles. This happens only during/after masturbation. Also the left testicles appears to be in a very lagged state. This problem is since a month. Is anything serious?

Answer 8

Just use plenty of lube. I was circumcised when I was 11 - and wanking use to hurt, until I found the fun of a drop of KY.

Answer 9

It might hurt more if you get circumcised now. But, it actually might help. I am circumcised so I wouldn't know what it feels like to not be.

Answer 10

Yes, you should see a doctor about getting circumcised