i need help with my life?

Question

hi im 14, i know this is long be please read to get a full understanding of wht im goin through and please please please give me tips. I go to a public school i am a freshman and my gardes are at 3 A's 4B's and i am in two advanced classes. i really like this girl but she doesnt even know who i am. Im in basketball through the city. I get board a lot. i have only 2 main friends. and am in 2 groups of people. People say i am really funny but i freeze up when it comes to girls. I am sooooo consintrated on money and i dont want to be. Everbody knows i have like 1500 dollars and are asking me for money or getting them stuff. i dont mind if i get somebody something but they tell other people and they assume they will get it for free also. I sold my psp to a kid that i thaught i knew but he has only paid me 100$ out of the 190$ and says that he is trying to get the rest of from a friend. So im going to borrow it and not give it back until he pays me (is that right)

Answer 1

u need to be careful who u trust, there are alot of people out ther who will just be friends with u 4the money, think to urself, would they be friends wif u if u didnt have the cash? an just be urself wif girls, we like that, dont try to be someone ur not, wel see right through that!! good luck!!!

Answer 2

Here is the thing. When you sell some something, you either put it in writing, or you get all the money up front. To take it and hold it for ransom is not really right. You physically gave it to him with a down payment and you did not put into writing how long he had to pay you the other money. I think this is a lesson learned, and you should continue to try to collect, but remember this. The only way that other people will know that you have money, is if you tell them you do. The question has many parts to it. Is there something you asked about girls? I mean you sound really scholastically on it, but socially you need some help. Be yourself and let people like you for who you are. IF people like you for what you have, you are being used. I think your an OK guy you just need to prioritize what is important in friendships.
Tracylyn S

Answer 3

well, it sounds like you have a pretty average life... good job on the grades... about the girl, first get to know her a little better. if you have any classes with her, just say hi and ask her what's up and 'isn't this assignment hard?' or whatever. make a joke and just get to know her better. if she seems at all interested, invite her and some friends to a movie and make sure you sit by her. if that goes well, ask just her out sometime... to make more friends, join a club or something that interests you. be friendly to everyone and try to be more outgoing. if you like basketball, join your school's team... try to focus a little less on money, you have your whole life to do that! don't tell people how much you have, just save it and don't think anything more about it. money isn't what's important in life... about the psp, first, you shouldn't have given him it until he payed in full. but since you did, DON"T let up on getting your money for it. be persistant, and if after 2 weeks he still hasn't paid, get your parents involved. it would probably be best to have your parents call his parents and explain the situation. it's ok to get that sort of help sometimes. hope i helped!!

Answer 4

wow first off the PSP yeah get your full moneys worth- never let people hang out with you because of the money you have NEVER.

as for girls, dude i know it may seem crazy but you're only 14 it is not the end of the world. talk to girls that you are comfortable with, friends that see you as a friend. slowly confidence will build up. again you are young so dont stress.

good luck

Answer 5

Naw take is as a lesson learned, when someone doggs u it will come back on them thrice which means times 3. I was wronged by alot of people whne i was younger & now they are doing worse than me & even though it was tough i made it through. Stop buying people things if they are true they won't keep taking advantage & tell them u don't have any nore money then u will see who is true & who is not never tell anyone what u have never.

Answer 6

First of all, you are not a bank and if these people are asking you for money, they're really not your friends - you should tell them to get a job instead. And regarding this girl that you're interested in, do you have anything in common with her? Find something of interest you two have in common and start a conversation from there...that usually works.

Answer 7

actually i couldnt relate the problem with the girl that u like but anyways. im telling u noone on this world is worth to waste ur money for. of course what u wanna do is the right thing. get the whole money then give it to him

Answer 8

open a stock account and invest the $1500

If you take it back, put it in a place where it cant be played by anyone. So ask your teacher to hold it until the guy gives you $90! Teachers are always looking out for the students, take advantage of this !

Answer 9

Sounds good to me.. just some advice don't talk to your friends about your money.. that is just asking to be used; keep it private. If you ever decide to sell something again, money first then give them the item, or you will get jipped.

Answer 10

You neglected 2: existence, AND WHY? God made you because He loves you. you've this style of element pronounced as 'objective', it really is the reason you're unique, one among a form. That makes you 'particular', particular now to not me, who cares about me, yet particular to the only which created you--God. So, having coming to this end it ought to do you a lot solid, to seek His will on your existence, and stay it to the finest of your potential. solid success.