I have nothing against gays, it has to do with me, im not gay but i feel like my mind is trying to convince me, i suffered with panic attacks and depression and im easiy worried about things, but now im 19 and i keep getting homosexual thoughts
When i think of it, it kind of makes me cringe because my attraction for women over powers it, the thing is ive always been attracted to women since i was 5 i can remember so, but just lately my heads messed up
Ive just come off anti depressents and i want to know if it could be due to them affecting hormone changes?
and also would i be able to have sex with women and get off on my gf if i was gay, im so confused i know im not gay but i keep getting these wierd feelings, its like a voice in my head saying you think that guys attractive and it kinda makes me feel jittery
will i get over this?
2007-02-01 09:31:15 · 11 answers · asked by wannabeomg 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Sounds like you have some exploring to do. Maybe you're bi.
You never know until you try it out!
2007-02-01 09:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are not a homosexual, but you are trying your hardest to think you could be.
You need to stop asking yourself if you are gay. So what, you look at a guy and think he is attractive, that does not make you a homosexual. Thinking you are a homosexual can cause you to be a homosexual in the future. You must understand you now have a predisposition for constructing homosexuality. It is in its early stages, you could easily be tempted to experiment. That would cause you to swing more towards becoming a homosexual. It is a powerful influence on any person who has an act of homosexuality. Once you allow yourself to act in the manner of homosexuality you open the door to much perversion. It is our hope you do not allow yourself the oppurtunity to even think of acts of homosexuality. they only reinforce idiology towards homosexuality. You can stop what you are doing by simply saying I am not a homosexual, and i do not want to have sex with a man, and i do not want to become a homosexual. You have the decision, no one or other does.
So if you think you are hearing a voice tell you this, it is most likely an other that is trying to influence you to do this, that can and does happen. It is very difficult to explain, but you know what I am talking about because you have heard others and did not understand what it was. You can ask help from Jesus christ and he will help you to not hear the others. It may take medicine, and it is something that you could be lead to in prayer. See you liescened doctor about the voices.
2007-02-01 10:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by ishelp4 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you started seeing a therapist, counsellor or a psychiatrist you may be able to dig deep into your inner being. There are things we have buried for one reason or another and sometimes when we can bring those things to the surface we will have a better understanding of our nature and through that we can finally accept who we are or where we stand in the cycle of life. These people are not reserved exclusively for people with mentality issues but they're there to help those who are confused and need some understanding of themselves. And remember the code of conduct which is the Doctor Client Confidentiality Code so you can open your heart to them. If your completely honest with them and yourself your problems are more likely to be resolved as opposed to not being honest with them or yourself in which case it's just a waste of time. Some things we just can't do ourselves. I can't say I've ever been to Counselling but pretty close with my best friend. I've spilt my guts out to him. He probably knows as much about me as I do. Anyway, I'm all the better for it and am quite content with all that is.
2007-02-01 10:00:34 · answer #3 · answered by zzap2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you are just growing up. You say you just came off anti depressants. I suggest you talk to the one who prescribed these and express your concerns on confusion of thoughts.
2007-02-01 09:58:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am gay and still find women attractive some even down right sexy! If you are comfortable with yourself, you have nothing to worry about. It is human nature.
2007-02-01 09:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by selms01 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're bi. Then you have both genders to choose a partner from.
Just go with whatever feels right. You'll work it out.
2007-02-01 09:39:50 · answer #6 · answered by Kharm 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
John Cena=[enter unstoppable animal here]
2016-03-29 00:27:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a psychologist about this. But don't worry, everybody thinks gay thoughts from time to time. Just make sure you don't act on them.
2007-02-01 09:38:50 · answer #8 · answered by cxz539 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
check out the kinsey scale and see where you are at on it.
you might be a 1 or 2.
Don't listen to ishelp4, he is straight and ignorant.
check out the kinsey scale and let your emotions run free, and eventually you will know if you are straight or gay.
2007-02-01 09:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be bicurious. Like you kind of secretly, or not so, want to have some kind of relation with a male.
2007-02-01 09:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by Muffy & 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋